I mean, is any attitude whether positive or negative better than no response at all.?
2007-05-19 08:50:48 · 15 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No!
As much as being ignored by someone you love may hurt, it does not compare to the physical/emotional damage that can be done with negative actions.
Would you want to be in relationship with someone that hugs you but then calls you names and slaps you across the room?
I didn't think so!
Your love should not require constant attention. If they do, they are showing their insecurity.
Showing consistent, not constant, positive signs of affection is the best way to go!
2007-05-19 09:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, screaming and carrying on only defeats the purpose of trying to communicate with the individual that you are screaming or carrying on at. Some people who are screamed at--or a form of communication that causes pain, for example only, will go to lengths to avoid (spend the night at the firehouse, go off with the friends, stay late at work, etc)any form of future communication.
2007-05-19 15:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not that you're partner can ever be 100% but if they have perpetual negative traits that are permanently affecting you negatively and you see no respite, its time to have a heart to heart talk.
However it could just be stress/a bad day.
Really depends if this is a pattern or not.
2007-05-19 15:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want attention only I guess it don't matter..But that Is far from a relationship...You should not lower yourself to beg for any attention...There are many people out there that will give you all you can handle and more..I guess basically don't wait for him to come around..You will be the one one getting hurt..
2007-05-19 15:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by GMGUY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Heck no!!!!! If people cant notice you with respect , they dont need to notice you at all. Never accept negative attention. You know how to tell people to f---k offf.
2007-05-19 15:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I genreally get into little tussles. Try not paying attention to them. Call them over and start playing with your hamster and completely ignore them.
2007-05-19 15:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by Hubbleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,I would rather someone keep there mouth shut than say somthing negative,or somthing that can hurt you emotionally.
2007-05-19 15:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone try to communicate with you about her/his feelings,you should answer,talk because unless people talk together they don't understand and know anything about themselves.
if you unbosom your heart your thoughts,it will be psychological torture.good luck ;)
2007-05-19 16:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by jr.psychologist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attention cause thelle think youre not paying atention to them and it might end up in a break up.
2007-05-19 15:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose so. I always get a response so it's hard to answer.
2007-05-19 15:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋