ok this is what happened. i dated this guy for 2 years. we was going to get an apartment and move in together this summer. i stayed with him every weekend and i always came to him he never came to me to stay which hurt but he had his own apartment and i had a nosy *** roommate. i cleaned his apartment, did his cloths, his grocery shoppin, and 99% of the time i was the D.D cuz he always passed out in the truck on the way home. i did everything for him. he broke up with me 2 days after his birthday and 13 days before mine. he told me he never loved me in the way i loved him and he also said that he met a girl that he constantly thought about all the time. we have been split up since march 19 and he calls me a week ago telling me he didnt mean what he said and he wanted us to try again. then the next day he found out this girl he has been seeing since before he ever broke up with me has genital warts and he has been sleeping with her without a condom. is it just me or karma a *****?
2007-05-19 08:16:59 · 23 answers · asked by Cindy S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok for those of you wondering i did get checked and i came up negative!!!
2007-05-19 09:14:25 · update #1
I only hope he wasn't boppin' her BEFORE he broke up with you.
2007-05-19 08:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this personally, but it's you. You're a people pleaser and looking for love in all the wrong places. Not all guys are so disrespectful and hurtful, but if given half a chance, they can become so. You allowed yourself to be used and abused. And the reason I say this is because you sound exactly like me 30 years ago. Even 10 years ago.
You need to get yourself some self-respect and self-love first. And no ... you can't find it on e-bay or in the bar.
And Kharma has a lot to do with it as well. You'll figure it out. Just hope you do it a LOT sooner than I did.
2007-05-19 08:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by OP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told most men are always looking for something better, yet they usually have the best in front of them. Although it may be heart breaking to you now, trust me from experience you will look back on this and thank the stars above that you saw the light. You are a great person and all great people deserve to be loved and treated with respect..don't ever settle for less than you dream and always dream big, you can have whatever you what in life, just make it happen and don't let on cheater take happiness away from you. You may not think so yet, but you won and he lost.
2007-05-19 08:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha that is so funny. What goes around comes around. How can he just leave and expect to come back when things didn't go right? He must think he is that type of pimp or something but obviously not since he caught warts. Hope he doesn't give you anything. Stay away from the low life. You can find someone who deserves you and treats YOU like royalty
2007-05-19 08:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shanysky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he kept you around because you were easy. He wants in your pants is all. No, it's not karma. You just made a bad choice by having premarital sex. This is why premarital sex is such a bad idea. Now stop all contact with this guy, and don't have sex again until your wedding night. You can also start telling other young people why premarital sex is such a bad idea. This guy is just a player. Guys used to have to PAY prostitutes for sex. Now there's a such thing as FREE prostitutes, and you fell into the second category. You don't have to be a free prostitute anymore. Have respect for yourself and wait until your wedding night for sex. A man who truly loves a woman will wait until they are married, the I do's said, and the honeymoon starts to have sex with the woman he loves.
2007-05-19 08:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl one thing you gotta believe in is karma! and i no from a very good experience...this guy DID mean what he said to you, he probly never loved you because you were doing so much work for him and cared so much about him that he felt like you were suppling all the love and so he took advantage over it because you were at the palm of his hands! so now he called you because he realized what he was missing, like they say, you dont no what you got til its gone! same situation! well oviously your not going to get back with him because of his infection first off, and second off...he REALLY doesnt deserve another chance...just wish him luck with his future on finding sumbody right for him..cuz to be its not looking to bright..sad but TRUE and yeap..the truth hurts..
2007-05-19 08:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, He is a shallow jerk.
Don't take him back. Move on your life and find some nice guy who will appreciate You.... not what you can do for him ...
Let me tell you what my Grandmother, my dad's mom, told my mom when they got married. Don't start out doing things you will not always want to do because he is going to expect you to do them forever.
Never truer words spoken. Next time... look for a great guy who appreciates a good person.
2007-05-19 08:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?
You gave him everything he wanted and required nothing in return.
Don't take him back and make sure to assert yourself in future relationships. He is going to expect the same groundrules. Plus he has an STD that you definitely don't want.
2007-05-19 08:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by Rainman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol karma. He's crawing back the someone who he thinks he can hurt and will be stupid enough to build him back up.
Don't get back with him, he threw away the only girl who was good to him for a loose one who gave him herpes. Don't go back with him, that would be so incredibly stupid. If you want to complete the karma and NOT get an STD, leave him crawl away.
2007-05-19 08:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's 'just you', except that when you pick a guy to love, ask yourself whether or not he is treating you in ways you don't like, but that you allow. You know you don't deserve that kind of treatment. Next act on your knowing. I suggest finding someone who is mature enough to listen and act in favor of your needs and vice-versa.
2007-05-19 08:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by Habitus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your previous guy facilitates his relatives to handle the mummy of his newborn like this? Your race has no longer something to do with this, expensive. it is abuse, by way of and by way of and that i'm shocked which you're putting up with this ****. as long as you keep your mouth close, they are going to think of it is ok to handle you like this. no you will try this without your permission and you, my expensive, is giving them a huge rights to try this. tell previous guy precisely what you wrote right here and which you have been no longer going to post with those products. Neither will you enable your newborn to be uncovered to that style of ecosystem. do no longer forbid BF to determine his relatives. enable him. you have have been given greater suited issues to do than to post with that. while somebody treats you and/or talk right down to you, the suited thank you to handle is is to % out the offending habit, state the way it makes you experience, which you extremely choose it to end in the present day and clarify what you will do if it persists. In different words, "i'm offended which you think of i might attempt to think of up a lie for no longer ingesting each and every little thing on my plate. it is rude and it hurts my thoughts. in case you do no longer end, i will leave." THEN DO IT. No drama, no door slamming, basically quietly get up, take the youngster and leave. human beings from the deep South do no longer all take care of their relatives like this, in spite of races. If BF talks to you a similar way, then i might heavily question your sanity for staying interior the relationship with him. good success.
2016-11-25 01:02:08 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋