my boyfriend wants a three sum i strictly like guys i would'nt feel comfortible doing it what do i do to stay with him out of love
2007-05-19 08:04:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but unless you are excited about this experience, you don't really stand a chance. Your boyfriend wants to experiment. This experimentation will only gain in intensity with each experience.
God bless
2007-05-19 08:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody can have a fantasy, but it shouldn't force someone to do something that you are not comfortable in doing. Why does he want a 3 sum in the first place? If he keeps insisting on a 3 sum even though you are not comfortable & have told him this, I would leave.
There is an old saying in our family;" If love is not being served at the dinner table, then you should just excuse yourself." Good luck.
2007-05-19 08:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tanker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend wanted a threesome for a while, but when I told him I was uncomfortable with it, he dropped the subject and we were fine. Explaine to him that you don't want to do this and give him reasons, or compare it to having a threesome with another guy, he should get the picture as to why you're uncomfortable. If he doesn't, drop him like a sack of potatoes.
2007-05-19 08:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kate M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him exactly how your feeling about it.
If he gets pissed and breaks up with you. Then he never loved you at all.
Just tell him how your feeling and you strictly like guys only.
He should understand. And still love you the same.
Tell him your sorry but you just cant do it.
He might be a little disapointed. But he should still love you.
2007-05-19 08:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ariocalypse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmnn... why would you want to share your love one with someone? You know the bible said God made Adam and Eve, not Adam, Steve and Eve or Adam, Eve and Bev... the chance of you losing your bf over the other girl (or him losing you) are great... Your in a really strange situation there girl... I'd rather be selfish and enjoy my man on my own rather than sharing him with someone else or him sharing me with someone else.
That is just creepy!
2007-05-19 08:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it relies upon on how previous you're. while you're youthful (in center college) needless to say a relationship won't thrive off of sexual touch... yet once you're older, it genuinely will make or wreck a relationship. in case you haven't any longer talked to him for that long, i might heavily evaluate ending it.
2016-11-25 00:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by barnhart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right, and as long as he doesnt pressure you to then its fine, Almost EVERY man wants a threesome...so that he tells you isnt weird, now if you told him no, he should drop it.
2007-05-19 08:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but probably not. Sounds like if he's serious about this and really wants it, then you need to think about moving on. Tell him you aren't interested and if he insists, then dump him & find a one woman man.
2007-05-19 08:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Amy27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are a one man woman and that you don't share your goodies with anyone but the one you are with, if he don't get you will not share, drop him like a box of hot rocks
2007-05-19 11:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend wanted a threesome, and I wasn't enough for him he can find someone else.
2007-05-19 08:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋