ok me and my boyfriend went to the movies together last night and one of my friends went with me ...when he showed up he was with two other girls that i dont like ... then he walks right by me and doesnt say a word to me.. i get a lil mad at him ..when i get into the theater he is sitting in between them so me and my friend go sit in the row next to them i get up to go get something and i look and him and another girl is holding hands..he said that he did that to make me friend mad ..would that be considered cheating????
2007-05-19 08:01:36 · 26 answers · asked by Megan M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friend was a girl
and my mother wanted her to basically schapron for her......plus he was the one who came with the other girls
2007-05-19 08:34:40 · update #1
I don't think it's cheating, but that was really disrespectful and he should get dumped for that!
2007-05-19 08:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by ..... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if its cheating that was a real *** hole move. GET RID OF HIM. There are much nicer guys out there wouldn't dream of doing that. How immature of him to even claim he was doing it to make some one else mad. Of course holding hands is cheating but it should be signal of things to come. Why would he be holding another girls hand in a movie when he's suppose to be holding yours. Don't be a fool and drop this guy pronto or you'll be the one with the heart ache later. Trust me. As some one who has date many jerks in my life time. Don't try and justify the situation. It is what it is.
2007-05-19 08:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by Fox 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he's a dog...don't take this. You know your a good person, who can get so much better then this jerk. Find yourself a guy who will do what ever he can to make YOU happy, not a guy who plays such childish games. He's the fool, don't let him get under your skin. Let him go...From what you've said, I don't see there being a happy future between you two. I bet, no I KNOW there are plenty of guys out there that would LOVE to be with you, & is whilling to do anything to make you happy.
Good luck Hun :)
2007-05-19 08:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're questioning, it in all hazard is. every time you sense an emotional connection with somebody else, any style of touch that feels intimate - ought to be merely speaking or texting, yet feels close, brings you nearer to that person - is cheating. in case you're no longer emotionally in contact, then those self same issues are merely friendly. additionally i'm assuming by technique of kissing you recommend a kiss on the cheek, because of the fact on the mouth or deep kissing is definitely around the line.
2016-12-17 17:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by claypoole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he be so childish as to hold hands with another girl knowing you were right there just to make you mad? It sounds pretty immature to me and i'd tell him that you don't want to be with someone who isn't even going to respect you and treat as though he liked you. Maybe he ignored you and was holding that girl's hand because maybe he is going out with her but she doesn't know about you. I'd talk, not yell but talk with that girl and ask her what is going on. If she knew about you and him going out i doubt she would be holding his hand right in front of you.
2007-05-19 08:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is if he is involved with you then why is he with two other girls. If he can't tell you to your face that yall are having problems and slaps you in the face like that. I would leave him. Its cheating and its flirting in dangerous territory which leads to the harsher part of cheating. What makes it cheating is that he asked another girl out to the movies knowing that it wasn't cool with you.
2007-05-19 08:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by waltdawg3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all, I am mad for you! I mean forget cheating...that was DISRESPECTFUL! Cheating is not the only reason you need to end it with someone. But to answer your question I would turn it around...would he consider it cheating if you did it to him? Chances are that you probably would never do it...you dont deserve it...let him go! =)
2007-05-19 08:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Fallon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget the "cheating" You should be asking "Should I consider this person as a boyfriend?"
2007-05-19 08:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by iamME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holding hands = Cheating? I dont think so, but it sounds like he's a jerk though.
2007-05-19 08:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
was your friend a guy if so they say whats good for the goose is good for the gander. why didnt you guys go to the movies alone.
2007-05-19 08:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by william w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋