I'm in love with a stripper.?

Question

I know she's just doing her job and probably doesn't feel the same way, but what should I do?

I wouldn't make her quit her job. I dont mind that she's a dancer.

Answer 1

You should get your head examined Cookie.

Answer 2

Hey take from me it will only cause pain. I once knew a stripper and now my family about hates me for that, you will only hurt yourself, the stripper may dump you or your family will, follow everyones advance. She may already be married or have a boyfriend. Do yourself a favor and get someone else. Have your fun at the clubs and don't get involved with a stripper.

Answer 3

I don't think she is gonna change he life style for you because you have feelings for her so first you have to ask yourself if your ok with her being a stripper while you have a relationship with her. Then you have to be honest and ask yourself if you can trust her to do her job and that's it. If you can truthfully answer yes to both of those questions then the next time you see her. Tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same way. If not don't bother her again if so then pursue the relationship.

Answer 4

What are you doing at titty-bars, anyway? You’re certainly not going to meet any girls who will want to fall in love there; and you shouldn’t even be there in the first place. But anyway, if things between you two do work out—which is something I doubt will happen—then be prepared to get an incurable STD; someone with such a profession is likely to carry one.

Answer 5

Vincent, I had a male friend who fell in love with a stripper. They got married, had a little girl and are still married to this day. Look at Kiss Gene Simmons. He married a Playboy model and they are still married and even have a show. If she loves you too, I would pursue the issue. You never know -but keep your eyes open and remember to keep your heart intact until you have been with the gal for many years. good luck

Answer 6

Oh, boy - you must THRIST for trouble...

I don't believe that stripping is 'just a job'. It erodes a womans' self-esteem (even if she won't admit it) and often attracts women who are emotionally unstable to begin with. While there ARE women who CAN handle the job and keep it professional, most are basketcases in thongs.

(And bring on the thumbs' down - I stand by this because I used to tend bar in a strip joint...)

Answer 7

lol She's just doing her job and is doing it well. Her job is to make you feel really special in order to get more money....and obviously it's working. Try spending less time and money in the stripclubs (I know, they're a lot of fun even for a woman...lol) and more time elsewhere.

Answer 8

Well I think you are more sexully attarcted to her then truly in love with her. If you really want to persue her then ask her if she is involved. If she says yes then leave it alone. Personally I think you are asking for a whole lot of drama. There are plenty of sexy women that will take their clothes off in the privacy of just you.

Answer 9

firstly, even though you may disapprove of her job it is at the end of the day what she does. Telling her has many consequences because IF you two do decide to start dating how will you feel when she's on the job?

Answer 10

Unless you think theres a good chance of hooking up, FORGET HER. Dancers have to be good actors at work ya know.

Answer 11

Forget about her. IF you are lucky enough to make her your girlfriend, eventually you are going to want her to quit stripping and that might be something she doesn't want to do. There will be a whole bunch of problems. Just leave her alone. :-)