so embarassed! My mom was on business and dad dropped me at home after soccer and he went grocery shopping and i was tired from practice so i took a shower and was gonna go 2 bed after it but the shower is off my parents room and when i came out Hannah Montana was on so since the door was shut and nobody was home, i laid down on their bed to watch for a little bit in my towel but since it was makin the bed wet i tossed it aside i was only gonna watch for like 10 minutes then put my clothes on in my room. Well like, b4 i knew it i laid on my back and fell asleep. And my dad didn't know i was in there when he came home so he walked in and i was asleep naked head to toe omg. I woke up wrapped in a blanket he must have put around me and him leading me to my bed. I was too sleepy 2 realize what happened til today! I know he changed me when i was little, but i'm 13! it's not his fault, he's a super dad, should i pretend it didnt happen? talk 2 him bout it? would u be embarased? or no biggie?
2007-05-19 07:01:25 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
LOL. Poor sweetie. I'm sure you're red in the face. I am a father of 6, 4 girls and 2 boys. Boys are 17 and 15. Girls are 16, 13, 11, and 9.
I know this is a big deal for a young growing girl hun, but realize that to a grownup like your dad, it is not nearly as big of a deal.
I understand where you're coming from though. I haven't seen my girls naked since they were 5 or 6. And I know why you're embarassed...did your dad get to see your breasts, your bare butt, and most embarassingly your privates? Yes, he did. Is that especially embarassing since he saw everything at an awkward age where all of those parts are in the middle of changing? Yes, it is. HOWEVER, you have to realize that to a grown man in his 40's seeing his 13 year old kid naked -boy OR girl- it was at most a moment of comedy, and not a big deal. The fact that you were asleep when he saw you probably made it a little less embarassing for him since he didn't have to see your mortified reaction lol.
Now since I HAVE a 13 year old daughter, if I walked into my room and found her sleeping on her back in her "birthday suit" because she accidentally fell asleep after a shower, what would be going through my mind? Well, I think I would be about 10% embarassed, about 10% innocently amused by seeing her in her birthday suit for the first time in ages lol, and about 80% INDIFFERENT, just wantin' her to get her butt back to her room so I can go to sleep lol. Hun, I'm here to tell you, for 99% of dads? That's what they'd be thinking too.
Now your 2nd question...should you have a talk with him about it? YES...ABSOLUTELY...why? Well first of all, if I was him, I'd be worried about how embarassed ya were and wanting to tell you it's nuthin' i haven't seen before, but would probably be too shy to bring it up unless my daughter did first.
2nd of all, i'd probably still be wonderin' what the heck happened that lead to findin' my kid without a stitch on in my bed when i got home lol. Thirdly, as a few others said here, you will feel ALOT LESS AWKWARD AROUND HIM once you have a talk with him about what happened, and like others said, it was probably more comical to him than anything else, so instead of being so mortified and serious about it, break the ice by making a joke or something about it. He would probably feel 10 times more at ease around you if you have a talk with him about it and keep it lighthearted, because then he'll know it's no big deal to you...and hun, it's no big deal to him anyway because he's your DAD...so this talk needs to happen to put his mind at ease to know it's not the end of the world to you either, and then guess what? You both can move on :) ...you sound like a great kid with a great mom and dad. I know it's easier to not mention it to him, but it's harder on him that way, because he's thinking this very minute "i hope stephy is not traumatized for life!". So it will be such a burden off his mind. This will be something you'll laugh about 10 years from now sweetie, even though to a preppy young girl like yourself i'm sure you don't realize it yet. All my best! Bob :)
2007-05-19 09:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 41⤊ 2⤋
Saw My Daughter Naked
2016-11-12 02:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by deviny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and formost, there is nothing wrong with your Dad seeing you naked. It was innocent chance happening. Your Dad is your Dad and nudity in the family should be a natural thing to see. There is nothing wrong with nudity. You need not feel embarrassed or humiliated. Feel glad you are in a loving family that your Dad has enough respect for you to cover you up so that you would stay warm. Take you back to your room and let you sleep. He is one that understands you and loves you as a father. It is interesting that so much is made up in the guilt of being naked. This should not be in a family setting. With the right understanding and knowledge of ones body embarrassment is the last thing you should be feeling. Nudity is a natural state and should be consider only that. You father understands and he most likely not thought anything about it at all. So just be proud you are loved and that he protects you. You are in a great loving home. Not a big deal so relax and go on with your life. But tell him every chance you have, that you love him. He may not be around to protect all your life. Good Luck
2007-05-19 07:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
I was in the same situation as you 4 days ago but mine was slitly different i'm 15! No one was home, so I came back from school to put my sports suits on for my martial art lesson. I didn't bother closing the door of my room cause I knew no one was here. I put my music loud and danced as I changed then when I finished I looked back to see my door closed!! I was shocked I saw my dad watching Tv down stairs I sneakly made my way outside the house. The next morning I was kind of weird around him so he himself approached me and asked me to close the door when changing even if I think i'm home alone. After that we started talking like before.The conversation set everything into i'ts place.
2013-10-27 07:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Asharenah 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its nothing ya...!!!ur dad wont even remember this incident so dont remind him!besides he is ur dad...a dad never see a bad thing in his child...u c...whatever age the child is...tat time he saw u he must have thought to cover the blanket only because you'll feel cold.he just cares for you.if this stays in your mind and irritates you,just tell your mom or dad,if you want to and they'll act like no different person this is nothing and this happens in everyone's life sometimes.dont worry.if its your brother,you can worry,he's ur father.he'll not think anything bad.all the best
2015-04-22 00:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Evangeline 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well girl, it's not like your dad has never seen a woman naked before. Embarrassing, yes, but you should just forget about it. He probably got a kick out of the fact that you did something silly. No harm done.
2007-05-19 07:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by karenhar 5 · 9⤊ 2⤋
lol, of course that's totally embarassing girl! But you have to realize your dad was just being your dad and didn't want you to get cold so he wrapped a blanket around you. I know that you're probably traumatized right now, but I don't think talking to him would do you any good (it would just cause a more awkward moment!) Maybe if it's still on your mind, talk about it to your mom instead, and tell her how ughhh you felt.
2007-05-19 07:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by i love love 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
No biggie. Your always going to be his precious little baby girl so totally not weird or sexy at all. It's as natural as the day you were born. I have a daughter and she like s to go streaking across the house, now thats just wierd but sleeping...totally fine. He even covered you up to keep you warm. Only a Daddy !
2013-11-25 06:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Stewart P 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I know you are totally humiliated, but me being a mother, I can guarentee if I see my kids when they get older by accident, i'm not gonna freak out and think about it or anything. They are my babies, even though my oldest is 8, he is still my baby, and will ALWAYS be. I know it would be embarrasing for him, but I look at it like I grew that child in my stomach, gave birth to him, and my three other kids, and change their diapers, have to do crazy things like give them tylenol in their butts when they're real sick with a high fever, given my son an enema when he had trouble doing #2, so that is how your dad sees you.
A parent has to do all sorts of crazy things, things I NEVER thought of when I was pregnant, or your age:) But being a parent is a whole different world, and your dad is no exception. He looks at you like the oerson who changed his life, he has an obligation to protect you, take care of you, and i'm sure loves you more than you can imagine.
You're his baby, even if you grew up, so try not to let it get you too freaked out, he may feel bad for you being embarrased, but that's about it. And he probably won't mention it to you, b/c he doesn't want you to be further embarrassed, so just try to forget it, he will.
2007-05-19 07:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by nymom 5 · 6⤊ 3⤋
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There's nothing you really need to say. Whatever he thought is his business and he will be OK. And he is prolly freaked out too. He may have changed your didies but the grown up package is a little different. He will get over it.
2016-04-01 07:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋