I've seen many girls change boyfriends overnight to a "new" boyfriend who they were hanging out with for a while. A few times now I feel I've been set up to be a girl's next boyfriend but I never figured out how to handle it well, it seems most girls have a boyfriend so just saying to stay away from ones who do might not be the best way to go, plus it's really hard to do when one you like wants to spend time with you, even if it's hell knowing she's sleeping with someone else.
When you're hanging out with a girl you have feelings for who has a boyfriend, should you just wait patiently, or try to initiate something, or stop torturing yourself by letting a selfish manipulative girl play you for a sucker?
2007-05-19 04:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by kermit55410 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah all girls do that. Next time try a woman. We don't play guys for suckers.
2007-05-19 04:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw a report on TV one Saturday night, so that should give you some sense of how reliable it was, but still, it made sense.
They studied women who were coming to a night club in London, with particular attention to the ones who were showing a lot of skin. It turned out that there was a complete correlation between the ones that were showing the most skin with the point in their menstrual cycle where they would be most fertile.
Now, here's the point where I am going out on the ledge with what I recall. It seems like something in the range of 20% of those in the high fertility group left with someone other than they guy who brought them.
I also know that genetics have proven that something like 25% of the offspring of supposedly monogamous, mated-for-life birds have fathers that are not the original mate.
So, the answer is, she expects you to be faithful, but she is at the mercy of her hormones.
2007-05-19 04:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of guys that say waiting patiently is the best way to go... And I've definitely been in honest relationships where I realize too late that things arent going well in it, while simultaneously getting to know some guy friend that I end up dating.
2007-05-19 04:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by glitteringinsanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon what you want to do. If you feel like she is selfish and manipulative, ask her in front of the boyfriend, "Am I getting the wrong impression or are you trying to pick up on me and leave your boyfriend?". That will cool her jets.
2007-05-19 04:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're trying to steal her from her boyfriend. You're the one whose selfish and manipulative.You're the one trying to play her for a sucker.
2007-05-19 07:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way boys go from 1 girlfriend to another overnight.
2007-05-19 04:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by ronald g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of factors, she's utilising her seize 22 mission to wedge herself between both of you. I surely do not trust their relationship besides because, in the adventure that they are such sturdy acquaintances, why have not you ever met her? He says he feels sorry for her, yet rather he's in simple terms yet another asshole of a guy. all of them are. I in simple terms desire i might want to like females instead yet, fairly frankly, we are all idiots too.
2016-11-04 10:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if u like a girl go for it.but u should wait after the breakup .cause if u ask her on date and she knows u know she has a boyfriend.then she'll find out that u like her.so i would wait.good luck =)
2007-05-19 04:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who can do that is immature and cant really commit to themselves let alone another person.
2007-05-19 04:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They eat chocolate and voila, next...~
2007-05-19 04:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Zorro 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋