my husband wants to take pictures of me nude and put them on the net it kind of turns me on but what should i?

Answer 1

You dont mention if you have children or ever intend to have children. Have you thought about how this could affect any children you have or may have in the future. What if it gets to them through friends or some other way. I think its a really bad idea. What kind of bloke wants the world goggling at his wifes flange anyhow?

Answer 2

Having the photo shoot should suffice and viewing the pics may be very gratifying if he is a good photographer.Only then should YOU make the decision.Personally i would say NO WAY.I'm sure you can imagine the problems that could arise,look at any struggling actress who suddenly "makes it",their past comes back in the papers! (unless you know the future DO-NT PUBLISH especially on the world wide web!!!)Private tasteful eroticism is between you. Maybe a good Nude study like a painting would be better,tasteful and erotic isn't impossible and it is a little more acceptable,having been around since the dawn of man/woman.

Answer 3

Putting nude pictures of yourself on the internet is up to you, but there are some things you need to think about before you do it. If you put your pictures on just 1 site, that 1 site could turn out to be many sites. Your picture could soon be all over the internet. People all over the world will be able to see you nude. If I was in your place that would not be a problem because nudity is just skin. Everybody has a nude human body, we all have basically the same body parts, we are either male or female. Nudity does not mean sex, a lot of people spend time nude because it is extremely relaxing and comfortable. I'm talking about nudists and nudism. I'm a nudist myself. A lot of people gets the wrong ideas about it. I don't care what total strangers thinks about me. However, when it comes to family and friends, that is different. You might not want them looking at your nude pictures. With your pictures all over the internet it would not be hard at all for your friends and family to find them. If just 1 person you know finds your pictures, that's all it takes. Word would spread like wildfire, all your friends and family would know what you done. Everybody you know could see your pictures. You will be the center of attention for a long time. You will be teased and laughed at an awful lot. With the right attitude that part does not have to cause even a slight problem. You would have to learn to laugh at yourself and show people what they say don't bother you. That is something that is extremely easy to do. Several years ago when word first got around that I had became a nudist I did not think people would ever stop laughing at me and teasing me about it. It was not a bad experience at all, handling it was one of the easist things I have ever done. A lot of it is the attitude you have. Most people thought is was cool that I had become a nudist. However, many people have terrible attitudes about nudity and they would think of you as an outcast if you put your nude pictures on the internet. If your friends and family are like that you would not want them to see your pictures. You could lose friends because of that. If they stop being your friend because of that they probably were never your friends in the first place. You are the only one that can decide that. Nude photos of yourself can cause problems on your job, it can cause problems on future jobs. There is nothing wrong with nudity. However, many people have terrible attitudes about it, that is where you could have problems. I'm not telling you to put your nude pictures on the internet, I'm not telling you not to do it. Can you handle the attention you will get if your friends and family finds your pictures? If you lose friends because of that can you handle it? Are you prepared to deal with problems you might have on your job? You are the only one that can answer these questions. I need to tell you this, if you use your real name on your pictures, that will make it even easier for people to find your pictures. If anybody types your name on google, that will take them to the sites where your pictures are posted. You better keep that in mind. What you do is up to you, it's your decision. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Depends what type of pictures they are. Will you allow your face to be shown?
Lots of things can turn you on but be very sure this is what you want as some things like this on computers can put an end to careers in some fields. It can also affect your future in ways you may not think of right now, ie; adoption, jobs, friendships.
I'd be more interested in why your husband wants to show your body nude to what could be some future nutter.
It may seem like some harmless fun for you both, but just think of ALL of the different types of men looking and imagining..............

Answer 5

Most everyone who has answered has given you good advice (except for the ones who just say "YES") and even they give you an indication of how popular your pics can be if they are the wrong type.

A lot of the answer depends on what type of nude photos you are talking about. Truly artistic nudes shouldn't do you harm unless your family is totally against nudity. 'Hustler' or 'Mens magazine' type graphic nudes will almost certainly come back to haunt you in later life.

The fact that you are asking for others' opinions tells me that you shouldn't allow any photos outside the true artistic realm to be posted.

Answer 6

If you want every sad pervert with access to a computer leering at you, go right ahead. If you have any self respect, absolutely not. Put it this way, how would you feel if he was showing these nude pics to his mates? If you wouldn't be happy about that, definitely don't put the pictures on the net.

Answer 7

Say no! It would be something you may regret later in life.Can you imagine going for a job interview and you potential new boss says,hmm you look familiar.Then he remembers where he saw you from.Whoops, you got the job and you spend the day with him chasing you around the desk expecting favors or you don't get the job and get black balled . Or you go to your child's school to a teachers meeting and they don't meet your eye because every-body's already seen everything you've got anyway. Or somebody sends it to your Mom and Dad.Some people don't care about stuff like that but a lot of us do. Just think about it long and hard before you do it because once it's out there it's out there it's out
there.And you can't take it back.It sounds like fun to you now , but think of later on.

Answer 8

There are several sites where you can post amateur photos. The question is are you REALLY OK with everyone seeing you nude. If you think you might regret it later than you'd be better off erasing the pics afterward instead of posting them.

Answer 9

you could make sure your face is obscured by a vase of flowers or something artistic. if you go for it dont let him blacken over your face with an editing program, that looks tacky and pornolistic . sit on the couch/ bed make sure the light is behind you, have your right leg raised at the knee to hide your privates the light from behind should hide your face but the camera should compensate and show your body in all its beauty. ive shot my missus plenty of times naked and posted them on the net i would happily photograph you artistically theres no shame in it.

Answer 10

personally I wouldn't do it having nude pictures of yourself on the Internet can have many bad implications, including getting stalked (if they find your location), or you could be turned down for future job opportunities.

If you really want to do it however, I would try and make it anonymous as possible, excluding head shots and any information on your self or where you may be.