its almost summer, and i can talk to him on the phone and email him but i dont think i can hang out with him!
2007-05-19 02:24:59 · 23 answers · asked by Jessi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so we cant really hang out for some reason, but he just keep saying stuff like, "oh, im going to miss you over the summer and we only have 11 days left to see each other" so we can talk on the phone and email eachother, but we cant acually see and kiss and hug and stuff. we're 13, and no we do not have a long distance relationship! and we've been going out for 7 months, so its going to be really hard not to see him!
2007-05-21 11:29:58 · update #1
Find a hobby that takes your mind away from him. Keep yourself active, your mind is less likely to wander. Whatever you do, don't forget to enjoy your summer! :)
2007-05-26 17:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being physically close to someone is not 100% of a relationship, think of all the people in the military overseas! Their spouses are without them for 1-5 years and they get letters and very limited timed phone calls! It' will either make your relationship stronger or it will break it apart. It depends on how serious both of you are to keep it together! A summer of not seeing anyone, but still being able to talk and email him should be easy it's only 3 months out of 12!
You'll do fine just stick in there and call each other everyday!
2007-05-19 09:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Tony C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me and my boyfriend has been together 9months. I'm in high skool and we can't talk on the phone. See each other outside of skool or anything at all because my mom don't like him because we got in some trouble together. But it's gonna be majorly hard if I decide to stay with him. But maybe you should take some time off or make a deal. Because no summer without you means other girls.
2007-05-19 09:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then say you dont like the whole long distance thing i have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend i havent seen him in 2 weeks but we still talk on the phone everyday and we are going to the movies to make out tomorrow but if the whole long distance thing isnt working out 4 u then tell him it's not working and that you think u should break up but tell him u still want to be friends if thats okay with him.
-hope i helped :) <3
2007-05-19 09:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by joelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds kind of suspicious! If its not a long distance relationship....then why cant he see you! I would move on....you are only 13 and trust me you will have many other boyfriends......and in a couple years will look back at this guy and laugh! I say see ya.....who needs a part time bf!
2007-05-27 02:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by BrwnSgr8421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should plan a romantic weekend/day at the beach! That way you can have fun this summer while spending time with your BF. Make sure you keep in contact.
2007-05-19 09:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by breezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T get a summer fling! Until proven otherwise, your boyfriend is loyal to you. Just entertain yourself thinking of him, talk with him on the phone etc.
If you find out that he wasn't loyal to you then you have the right to dump him.
2007-05-19 09:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by h4ckjack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep thesame routine in everyday life, Focus your attention to something more important than your bf. If you cant survive it, better lost bf than your life
2007-05-19 09:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by Quadro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it, your to young to be geting so seriouse and leting your self become upset and needy.
what you do now will set the patern for many of the relationships you have in the future.
if you want sucsessfull adult relationships you must practice successfull adult behavior.
2007-05-27 09:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it. just enjoy your summer talk to him on phone be happy
2007-05-26 16:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by lsp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋