My boyfriend's really into making out and all that. He's been wanting to sleep with me, but I don't wanna lose my virginity yet. I'm still a Senior in High School. So, his basketball team had an all-winning season, and I'm thinking of giving him a lil sugar tonight. What should I do? I hope it's not gonna be something where he thinks I wanna sleep with him finally..But something romantic or what guys like him like...
(I'm not used to these kinda stuff..he's usually the one making out with me, so I'm afraid I'll mess up...)
2007-05-19 00:38:37 · 17 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Diane, forget it! The only "treat" your boyfriend wants is to sleep with you. And even stopping short of that by allowing him to sample, but not go all the way, is like playing with lit dynamite. Making out only gets our engine revved up.
You must learn, we boys DO NOT think like you girls. We are consumed with the idea of sex. We are thinking about it for 80% of our waking moments.
If you want to do something for him and remain a virgin, cook him dinner yourself, and serve it with a lot of friends present.
One of the old jokes goes like this:
Guy: Do you believe in the "hereafter"?
Girl: Yes, of course.
Guy:Then you know what I'm here after!
2007-05-19 00:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to give him a lil 'treat' lol then do something like candles and insence if you have that kinda stuff and maybe do a lil strip tease, Use some hand relief for him and if he starts getting to excited whisper in his ear. Not yet hhehehe it will leave him craveing for mre.
Sure its mean but sexy at the same time!
2007-05-19 07:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by M@rc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be your self and let nature take its time and just being with him and telling him how you feel is wonderfull enuff maybe you and him can go to dinner or to a movie and a walk after and just hold each outher that really means alot if he loves you that can be the best thing you can give right now but you dont have to do any thing drastic just be nice and keep whats spechel till the totol time is right for you and him and you will know when that is so i sugest doing somthing he really likes but keep the sex out of it till your old enuff to share the right feelings
2007-05-19 07:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by john m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to keep yourself for THE LOVE of your life...you'll regret you did something like that with someone else...there is a time for everything...NOW is the time of being teenager, not a woman! Please take good care of your body...and don't forget you have a soul, too!
All girls that did what they didn't have to do at this age regret it (even they don't say it!)You have to wait and pray to have the wisdom you need at the proper time!
2007-05-19 07:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yeh a bj would be great
n u knw his thing botu makin out would be satisfied to some extent
and u cn give him wht he wants
then a great kissing session n allow him to touch ya anywhere jus touchin okay
n then umm u cn play some sort of game tht heats up things
so u cn have fun n give him wht he wants without havin to make out
cheers!
2007-05-19 07:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by PaRtY AnGeL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whatever you decide to treat him with, just tell him up front that he isnt going all the way, so just get the idea out of his head, then you and he can agree on what you both might be willing to try, and oh yeah, wear protection.......
2007-05-19 07:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some head or hand but tell him thats all for now if he plays up just give it a decent tug~~
2007-05-19 07:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can spend with him a very romantic night through dancing and hot kessing but it is better to lose your virginity in very special day like in his birthday or your birthday or in your graduated day this will be fantastic
2007-05-19 07:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by ASR 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answers above are correct.
2007-05-19 07:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to hang on to your virginity. Give him some oral.
2007-05-22 12:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋