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2007-05-18 16:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Thayalan K 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Next time you orgasm just concentrate on what it felt like and what your state of mind was and what your body required (muscles it had to use) to cause it. Then you have to learn to deny the orgasm by setting atleast one of these things out of sink with the others.
Everybody always says dont think about sex blah blah blah but if you learn how you can stay in the sex state of mind but avoid being in the orgasm state of mind.
To get a good feeling for what I mean consider your thoughts right after you orgasm and arent ready to have another one. Consider even where the thoughts may be coming from and learn to "think" like this during sex to drastically delay orgasm.
2007-05-18 18:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by coachfolds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try grasping your penis at the base and squeezing it and stop all movement for a few seconds when you feel like you are going to ejaculate.Once the feeling of ejaculation goes away you can start moving and loosen your grip. If the feeling comes back do it again and again until you are ready to let go. Another thing is to try using a c0ckring. It does the same thing but will not let you ejaculate until you loosen or remove it. A third thing is to try a desensitizer like Maintain.Just make sure you cover with a condom and wash your hand before touching your wife's vagina or you could numb her too and she will not be able to orgasm.
2007-05-19 00:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by littledevilinyourcup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women takes time to orgasm compared to men. So do foreplay. In fact for girls, a romantic diner and stuff is already part of the foreplay. You put her into the mood. ROMANCE! Give her a sensual massage, kiss every inch of her body, find her G-spot. Give her oral sex and so on. Then if she is almost coming, that is the time you start penetration. No need for kegels exercise and stuff. Now that is what you call PERFORMANCE!
2007-05-19 00:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to remember that the journey is half the fun. take it slow, relax. if you feel you're getting close, pull out for a while and just kiss. talk to your wife too. she can help you set a slower pace. the end isn't always the most important thing. when all else fails, see your doc.he can help.
2007-05-19 00:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not to think of sex so much and what your doing imagine painting a wall that is what my hubby does or keep pulling out and doing other things take more time with foreplay and kissing her
2007-05-19 01:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while having sex right before you *** pull out and play with her the continue with sex . good luck hope that helps
2007-05-19 00:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by MADDYSMOMMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No good way to do so. Best bet is to get her well steamed up before you get to the main event.
2007-05-19 00:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try a couple of glasses of red wine
2007-05-19 00:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by shaggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋