It is not a choice.
You cannot choose who you are attracted to.
2007-05-18 16:32:17
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answer #1
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answered by max h 2
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There are some homosexuality that was inborn. And if the straight guys are lured to that person, the tendency is to become the same. Men also needs someone in their life, and if that someone happens to be a homo and fulfills the cravings for someone, their friendship will blossom into a very strong relationship and later they will both become homos. The straight guy was wasted in a sense of a beautiful women but not to the homos. It is genetic and sometimes it doesn't come out for so many generations. Sometimes it comes out in a female and sometimes in male of the same family.
2007-05-18 16:34:25
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answered by earth angel 4
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I am not sure how someone becomes gay but I do not think it is a conscious choice. Could be genetic though that has not been proved. Could be psychological reasons or environmental reasons. The thing is no real studies have been done that were free of political or moral bias.
I have known a lot of GLBT people but only met one lesbian who said she had chosen to be a lesbian. She said she was still attracted to men but could not be in a relationship with one. I have never met a gay man who said they had made that choice.
I can not imagine anyone in their right mind choosing to be outcast from most of society.
2007-05-18 16:36:13
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answered by Vida 3
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I think the feelings homosexuals have are genetic. You can't choose who you love. But it is a choice to lead the lifestyle.
I don't see how people could ever think it is a choice to have homosexual feelings, because LGBTs are tormented their entire lives. Who would choose to deal with that if they didn't have too, right? But in the end, I guess love overrides everything else.
2007-05-18 16:33:35
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think it's a choice nor genetic.
2007-05-18 16:28:49
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answered by Anonymous
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i think it is genetic, or a trait, or something like that...i don't think its a choice at all...
i know a lot of gay people who often wished they weren't gay cause they think life would be easier...so definitely not a choice....
2007-05-18 16:29:52
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answer #6
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answered by jamie k 3
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im gay, my brothers gay. i dednt have a choice. i wus born into a veri catholic family. i remember sense i wus real little being attracted to both sexes, but i dednt thenk about it. the ferst time i heard the werd "gay" i was called it. i asked my mom whut it meant and she yelled at me an grounded me an sed to never say gay again. i wusnt really that interested in boys or gurls for a while, but when i wus 14 i started to get feelings for both boys and gurls. i wus afraid of whut i felt and i tried to ignor my feelings. i told my girlfriend i thought i wus bi and she totally fliped on me, tried to make me think it wus just me and i shud try an only like gurls. i tried, i reallay did!! but i cudnt stop being gay just by ignoring the way i am. and i wus afriad, i dednt even know anymore. but when i fell in love weth a guy friend of mine..*blush* i knew for sure and i wusnt afraid anymore ♥
i know its not a choice, but i dunt thenk anyone knows for sure yet whut makes someone gay
2007-05-18 16:33:53
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answered by Anonymous
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I think it's natural. The only choice is whether you want to stay in the closet or not.
2007-05-18 16:32:52
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answer #8
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answered by Pico 7
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its not genetic or by choice. its being born with a sickness such as a killer that has a fixation with death ... its in the an unhealthy mind.. or a abnormal mind that thinks different
2007-05-18 16:31:05
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answered by CANDY 3
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I think that it's a choice and that it's stupid for people to think that others are born with it...that just makes no sense. I thi nk that it's a choice...kind of like saying you're emo or prep (sry for the labels for those who don't like them but that's how it is)
2007-05-18 16:31:14
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answered by Anonymous
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It's not genetic or your not born to be a homosexual. You choice to be go there.
2007-05-18 16:28:29
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answered by ? 5
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