we were friends for years and then we dated. he told me he loved me and i believed it... but then we had sex and he broke up with me. he devestated me! and now he wants forgivness and for us to be together again...what should i do? i'm so lost and depressed... help me please!
2007-05-18 11:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweetheart he has issues that you may not understand.How could he do that to you,I would not trust him if he were the last man on earth,he trashed your heart,he should not ever have the opportunity to do this again.Its up to you to decide if you want to risk your heart being torn to shreds a little more.I'm sure if you pray God will send a real man your way,and by the way don't be to quick to sleep with a guy,some will just use you.
2007-05-18 11:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly feel that he is sincere than I would give him another chance. if he came up to you and apologized than he has to feel something right? but also keep in mind that he did hurt you and if he was quick to let you go like that after being intimate than how stable could he be in a relationship. If your feelings are strong than I would take it slow and ask him why he did what he did, and than I would see if he really cared and make him wait awhile before pursueing a relationship. dont be depressed over someone that would do something like that, I know its hard because you really cared about him, but how much could he have cared by doing what he did. just go with your heart, but take everything slow and dont just jump back into things.
2007-05-18 12:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by luvleebabygurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, what he did was low to the lowest, and he have the nerve to come back and ask you to get back together?? don't, even if you have feelings for him, that needs to go away after he uses you, and your trust, at least the two of you weren't married, just imagine how it will feel if you are. Seriously, be strong,don't let him treat you like a property, when he thinks that he needs you that's when his going to pick you up, then when his tired of you he will just hide you, that's a no, no sweetie, you deserve better than everyone on this world. Just be strong for yourself and do tell him the next time he comes and see you, tell him " you fool me once, shame on you, and you fool me twice, shame on me!!"
2007-05-18 13:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guys point of veiw, he is wanting you back because he thinks its an easy booty call since he already hit it before. since he has already dumped you it's just a temporary tie over till he finds something else better again and drops you like its hot and gets with the new clapper. wake up girlfriend and realize that he is only wanting tang and i don't mean for breakfast.
2007-05-18 11:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he wants you back in bed!!! Not back in a relationship. Ask him why he broke up with you in the first place and find out his true intents. I hope that everything works out for you!! Good luck.
2007-05-18 11:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by jesusisthereasonyising 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still hurting from the break-up, I don't think it's proper and fair to him to establish another relationship when you don't have firm feelings. Give your self time to heal. It won't be a good relationship if you're still in that kind of state.
2007-05-18 11:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by C A M S ™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont go back. You treid and gave it a shot, He chose to walk away so his lost. Move on you will meet a nice guy who won't take you for granted.
2007-05-18 11:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by saffron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont take him back tell him that you arent ready for the relationship and you dont feel like getting hurt agai and move on with your life
2007-05-18 11:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by weeping_spirit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him your not his sideline hoe that if he's coming to have a relationship then stay but if he just wants to have sex again then turn around follow your heart not your mind your mind is what got you asking the question your heart is what answers
2007-05-18 11:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond****Painful Luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tiger doesn't change it's stripes. Maybe you should have sex with him and then leave him. Sounds good to me.
2007-05-18 11:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋