If you would find out that your husband or boyfriend was seeing another woman, would you want to meet her? If yes what would you do? What would you do to your man?
2007-05-18 11:14:13 · 29 answers · asked by ALEXA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
never a good idea...you'll end up beating her ***, especially if she's hotter than you. just confront your husband and leave her out of it...you husband hasnt told her about you anyway so she is most likely oblivious to the situation at hand.
2007-05-18 11:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by j t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not care to really meet her as me. I wouldn't mind seeing her. If i could find a way to meet and speak with her without her knowing who I was, I would want to do that.
When my husband cheated, I divorced him but I was curious about the other woman. He didn't stay with her long, he went on to someone else.
2007-05-18 11:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt want to meet her, see her, or even talk to her. It sucks when you have any contact with the other person because then you cant ever get that person off your mind. She doesnt make you who you are. You dont need to see her or know her to value yourself. She means nothing to you. She will always and only be the fling. I was in the situation and trust me my man pays for it every minute. I dotn fight or throw it in his face but me taking him back and him trying to gain my trust back is a constant reminder of what he has done to me. He can go out and do it again but guess what, I wont be here to take him back again. This is his chance. Those women will never compare to me.
2007-05-18 11:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably wouldn't care to meet her right then and there - but once the dust settled, I wouldn't mind. I wouldn't do anything to my man; depending on the situation, I would make a decision of whether I wanted to leave or stay in the relationship. Which decision this was would depend entirely on the situation at hand.
2007-05-18 11:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to meet the other woman to give her that azz kickin' she has been begging for because a woman knows when she's messing with a married man. And as for him if he knew that I knew he would just leave the country because he already know!
2007-05-18 11:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would I?? you bet I did, as the matter of fact the day I discovered my stupid husband's affair, I called, email her and told her that is was the lowest thing I've seen accepting my husband's plea that he wasn't happy at home??while her husband is away in the navy ship..I demand that she drives over 100 miles to my home and apologize to me 3 teenagers for helping him to commit adultery, and she did new years eve. And my husband even he beg for another chance, we can't accept what he did so now me and my 3 teenagers are happy with no heavy drama in our life...
2007-05-18 11:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting the other person is only important if you stay with your husband/wife after cheating.
2007-05-18 11:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by whocarez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if your husband is cheating you'll want to know with who right? I mean for all you know it could be the girl that everybody's talking about that has an STD.
2007-05-18 11:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know everything about her, and exactly why she was more appealing than I am. I would probably torture myself, I might even talk to her, see what all she knew about him and our relationship. Yeah, if I had a chance, I would want to meet her. What would I do to him? I guess talk to him about what went wrong with us and where he wanted to go from here. Then we'd decide what to do.
2007-05-18 11:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by 1978girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I'd meet her. Bring some wine and candles and let him fulfill alllll his fantasies.
This is not the place to describe what she and I would do to my man, dear.....
2007-05-18 12:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋