2007-05-18 05:50:43 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Get The Phuck Otta My House
2007-05-18 05:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Ardency Chick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell my 14 year old daughter that she has three choices: an abortion, sign full custody of the child over to her parents (us), or give the baby up for adoption. There's no other realistic options for a girl that age. She can't get a job, and if she runs away, the state will most likely take the baby away and put it into foster care. For her sake and the baby's sake, tough choices have to be made. Good luck.
Oh and also, I would find out who the father of the baby is, and 1) get his parents involved in the decisionmaking, and 2) make him understand what he's helped create, and the mess that's been made.
2007-05-18 05:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering I am a Father of a 14 year old Daughter, I would be highly upset!
Simply because I know who my Daughter is "going with", and that she assures me that "nothing is going on"! If there is, then the "boy" who fathered a child with my Daughter would be paying until he is 18 for the child!
If he didnt marry her, then there is nothing I can do, but, if he "does", he had better be a good father, and a good husband to my Daughter!
14 is way too young to have a child. Your not old enough for the responsibility of raising one, nor do you have the Parenting "skills" or maturity to handle a baby full time 24/7.
My Daughter had better give me a good explanation as to why she didnt have the boy use protection, or why she didnt ask to get on the pill... I wouldnt kick he out of the house, because I love her, and she is my Daughter, and blood is thicker than water, but, that doesnt mean I have to "like it"!
I wish you well...
Jesse
2007-05-18 06:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....I was 20 and pregnant, and engaged, but not married! Grown-up right? My dad called me every noame under the sun!!! Said now no-one would want me(mind you I was engaged to the man I'm still married to after 20years), and I have ruined my life and his! Then he called me a 'trampy whore', and then didn't talk to me until I was 8 months along!!
This was my thing.......and my family was very strict, if they knew half of the things I did as a teenager, my parents would both been dead a long time ago from shock and awe. Thus the reason I moved ut at 17.
If you are a teen and pregnant, please, don't think that every family(dad) is gonna be like mine. Mine was the exception to the rule!! Just tell him, he will be angry, but he will get over it in time. You are his little girl.....if you know who the father of the baby is, you might want to warn him thcat you are telling your dad, and maybe even have him go with you to face up to your dad.
Good Luck Hunny
2007-05-18 05:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Momma P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant at 16 and my dad ignored me for 3months*we were living together*I dont even wanna think about what he would do if i was 14.We have a great relationship now though,But then again i also finished high school and college before turning 19,with a child:).Still dont recommend it though.Not a smart thing to do.at 14 you should still be a virgin,even 16!
2007-05-18 05:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I would have told my dad I was pregnant when I was 14, he would have cried. I would imagine it would have taken him days to say anything to me. He would have been devastated over my loss of any chance at a successful future.
He would have been supportive of me throughout the pregnancy and he and my mom would have helped me raise the baby, but I guarantee I would be FORBIDDEN from having anything to do with boys for the next 50 years lol
2007-05-18 06:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 and if I was having a baby right now my dad would flip. After a while he would get over it and just deal with it.
2007-05-18 05:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by b-ball girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget what every one else says dads differ in so many different ways your dad might not qualify in any of those things
but since your asking this I bet your 14 and pregnant I know it will be hard on him at first it is ileagal to have intercourse in america untill your 18 but many people still do it but no matter what happen a father and daughter have a special conection and your father will alwase love you but here are tips to break it to him
1.if you have a mom close to you tell her first and tell her not to tell dad thats what I would do if your ma's not close to you tell ma and pa at the same time
2.ask him if you tell him this he won't get angry
and 3.break it to him slowly practice it tell him you love him and NEVER have sex again til your over 18 and married.
and two more VERY IMPORTANT things 1.NEVER ABORT EVER IF YOUR MOM ABORTED YOU,YOU WOULDENT BE HERE WOULD YOU and last but MOST IMPORTANTLY 2.JESUS LOVES YOU AND WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU!!!
Diana
2007-05-18 06:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by diana_pup_luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, guess it depends on your dad, guess you could be lucky and have the kind that cares and will be there, but there are some out there that dont care or will tell you its your problem and you will have to help yourself and better, i know i didnt had sex at 14 so i pass that one, but my dad would of flew off the handle and been really mad, but he would of been there for me and the baby..
2007-05-18 05:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by Star*famous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad probably would not say anything at first. But I know he'd be upset and mad at me. My mom, on the other hand, would have plenty to say. But I don't think they'd kick me out of the house.
2007-05-18 05:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by Julie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were your father I would be disappointed above all things. BUt i'd also try to realize that in my youth I was definately not the perfect child and was having sex at that age, so I'd try to understand, and be there with as much love and support as a father could be! But I would aso have a talk with the boy/young man who was the father and explain to him that he has two options, Go to Jail( for statatory rape) or start supporting my daughter with child support, and if he couldn't I would talk to his parents as well ( of course I would have my family lawyer fully involved in it as well)
2007-05-18 05:56:54 · answer #11 · answered by Tony C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋