is there a such thing as reverse thinking?

Question

when you have a spouse who you voice your issues about them to and they turn it around on you what is that called?

Answer 1

In any relationship, one of the key factors to healthy relationship building communications, is agree to be able to disagree.
His lack of good communications will drive you away from communicating with him---sad.
I love it when my wife disagree with me and express her thoughts, we both are able to expand our knowledge doing this.
What is it called--debating contest/turning the tables.

Answer 2

I love that little game. (can you hear the dripping sarcasm?)
People like this are called "responsibility challenged". They simply cannot handle taking responsibility for their own words or actions, and will turn it around to you everytime. Just like a boomerang, they send it right back to you.
My advice.....stop voicing your feelings. This type of person doesn't want to know. They don't care....and they won't likely stop doing it once they've gotten on it.....so all you can do, is take it until you get sick of them not communicating, then walk away and leave them STILL blaming YOU for stepping out on them. Good luck.

Answer 3

Reverse psychology

Answer 4

It's called turning the tables.

Answer 5

My wife does that to me all the time as well. The only thing I can tell you is that you truly can fix any thing with Duct Tape. It doesn't matter whose mouth you put it on...yours or hers...it will fix it...LOL.

Answer 6

Do you mean:

"Honey, I feel like you're angry all the time"
"You think I'm angry? You're angry all the time!"

or

"Honey I feel like you're angry all the time."
"Well that's because you do stupid things!"

Either one calls for marriage counseling...but each requires a different approach...

Answer 7

NONONONONONONONONOGHJ, "whao" I mess up I supposed to put NONONONONONONONO, but there is a GHJ on the end.