2007-05-18 04:39:27 · 8 answers · asked by ingrid 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am really offended by some of the responses of these people. My fiancee is bi sexual. He has had sex with men. And he has had sex with women. He dropped hints when we first got together, so I just came right out and asked him. He told me, and we spent alot of time having very serious talks about things. My fiancee DOES NOT HAVE AIDS!!! Not all gay or Bi men have aids. That is just ignorant for people to imply that it is that way. You just have to be open minded if he is. I was married for 7 years to a straight man, and I have been with my fiancee for 3 years. We have the best relationship. And by far the BEST SEX EVER!!! I have accepted him for who he is, and I love him dearly. All you can do is ask. Don't approach him in a negative way about it. You can never know what someone is thinking. And if you are in a relationship with someone, you just need to be able to be honest with each other and ask questions. I have asked him some very very personal questions, and he has answered them truthfully. At first I wasn't sure about everything. You just need to communicate with each other. For him, he is attracted to men for what they can do for him sexually. He never thought a woman would dare, do some certain things. Well he found out he was WRONG when he met me. It is okay to explore sexually, and alot of women miss out by being closed minded. I have never been happier. So just ask. And if he says yes, then you two need to talk about what his exact attraction to men is. If he says no, make sure to let him know you would be ok with it , you just want to be able to talk openly and honestly about it (that is if you are ok with it.) The meaning of being bi sexual is that you are sexually, or emoitonally attracted to both men and women. It is ALOT more common than you think. I have met three bi-men on here, and have become very good friends with them. We talk openly with each other about our thoughts on it. There is nothing wrong with it at all. There are no real signs, trust me people can come off how they want. The only way to know for sure is to just ask. I would have never known if it wasn't for him dropping hints, and asking questions about my feelings on the subject. You would never know if you just met him.
2007-05-18 05:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you may desire to get to recognize him...i does no longer purely ask him if he's into you, yet get to recognize him adn carry out. If he's interested in then you definately one ingredient will deliver approximately a different and you will locate out.
2017-01-10 06:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by gabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its possible to tell for sure. Gay guys pass for straight for decades, sometimes for their whole lives. Nobody can tell whats going on inside somebody else's head. But if you happen to see a guy checking out another guy that would be a sign.
2007-05-18 04:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Forget about signs simply ask him.
Some men are very discreet. That's why so many women are currently HIV positive..
2007-05-18 04:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
When he bends over and counts the number of balls he sees. If he sees four he is bi.
2007-05-18 04:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Umm..he finds other guys HOT
2007-05-18 04:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
What a good question I hope that this isn't an issue for me?
2007-05-18 04:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just ask him.
2007-05-18 04:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by o0hhdangletzbang 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋