Were you both okay afterwards, and remained friends?
2007-05-18 03:39:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes and yes....you shuld always be friends before being lovers anyway
2007-05-18 03:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. The first time ended up causing us problems. We pushed through and stayed friends. It happened again and 2 weeks after that, we confessed having feelings for each other that were undeniable. Our one-year anniv. is on Tuesday.
So, I think it's very hard to stay friends unless you really disconnected yourself from any emotion. If that's the case, you'll be fine! If there are hidden feelings for that person though, chances are, they'll come out once the deed is done.
2007-05-18 10:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It changes everything -- at least during the relationship and for awhile afterwards. But then again I have heard of this term "friends with privileges," so, at age 45, my answer might be outdated.
2007-05-18 10:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had that twice and been able to remain friends. Most of the time, however it ruins the friendship. It depends on how much love is there.
2007-05-18 10:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by frogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i've had a relationship one night with my best friend but it wasn't anything sexual, but she said she liked me first, then i told her i liked her too and then i started telling her my true feellings for her, then we talked for 4 hours strait then i asked her out and she said yes and she was sleepy so i told her good night and covered her with a blanket, and i stayed up all night and morning, then i wrote her a letter of how much i cared for for her and put it in her purse and the next day her uncles wife got in volved and all hell broke loose, so we hardly talk anymoer
2007-05-18 10:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by .:ROM3O:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dated a few of my friends. and some of the guys ive dated have BECOME my friends! some have remained friends and some have just lost the connection! it all depends on how close you guys are. sometimes it even ends up that its just akward! but go for it!
2007-05-18 10:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My boyfriend and I were friends for 10 years before we started dating... and we have been together for 2+ years!! :)
2007-05-18 10:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by RobbinATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and we are married now for almost 2 yrs and have been together for over 7 yrs. I am sure they don't always work out that way though.
2007-05-18 10:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by cat_tails_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and we had our toubles so we are just about clse friends now. My other friend i went out with for a year, and then something happen. I aint gone give out 2 much info.
2007-05-18 10:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by ~Ramd 5wa99Arific~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and Yes. But we were very close firends before we did anything and both of us kew that each time we were together it was purely for the fun of it.
2007-05-18 10:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Matt - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we were just friends after that though. It was more than that and developed into a relationship
2007-05-18 10:42:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋