How can I meet a beautiful Thai women to marry.?

Question

I live in the US and am considering going to Thailand to
find a wife. What would be the best ways to go about this
and what are the possible problems?

Answer 1

what do you think your doing go window shopping at Walmarts? Why not come over here a few times learn something about the country and people. Your going to have problems if you think Thai women are easy. They have their culture, and personalities just like any other women. If you just want to find one because you think you have money and she wants your security your marriage will never work.

Answer 2

Heck of a long question - it is a question isn't it? When a Farang walks down the street in Thailand is he just a pedestrian or is he a potential customer? When there are unfavorable comments made behind his back should all Thai people then be called racists and bigots? Some women who marry foreigners do win the grand prize! They have a steady income to assist their families. Some of these women are set free from traditional taboos or mores and thrive. Some benefit and some do not. Some Asian women who marry Asian men may end up in a worse way than marrying a non-Asian! To only complain about foreign white men is a racist act too! Sometimes life is what you make of it! Isn't a wife also a bed partner??

Answer 3

Hi, many Thai women are beautiful. If not on the outside, they are beautiful on the inside.

Have you try checking out the local Thai community in your area? How about getting to know them? This will be easier as they will be accustomed to your way of life already. Rather than looking for one in Thailand where there will be too many unknown factors like cultural differences, expectations, acclimatisation, etc etc. Plus you will not have known her properly enough to actually marry her. Nor her for the same reason.

If you are insistent, then probably look up a Thai dating site and look for one to correspond with, and if you both are compatible, you can then plan to go over to meet up and discuss further. Any possible problem, I guess you will learn as you correspond.

Probably my advice will not to jump into this like you do in a shop. Get to know each other and you will need to understand her needs before you go into marriage with a Thai. Learn more first.

Good luck.

Answer 4

http://www.thailadies.com

You first have to enrol as a member and they'll send you pictures and profiles of Thai women interested in marrying a foreigner or 'farang' as we are called there. Once you select a woman or two of your choice, you'll be asked to visit Thailand and meet the women and their families. The agency takes care of the rest- for a fee of course. But this is better than walking off the airplane to find a wife and not knowing where to go or being unaware of Thai traditions, culture, immigration laws etc.

Approaching through an agency such as Thailadies costs a bit but the system is reliable.

Answer 5

How can I meet a beautiful Thai women to marry.?
' why you just ask for a beuatiful thai woman ? are you good looking enough to ask or request for a beautiful lady to be your wife ? ' i see many old guys got young wives , i am not sure its love or money. so if you just say 'a nice thai lady' maybe you will find a lot.

I live in the US and am considering going to Thailand to
find a wife.
'go to Thailand , just for seeing and learning people , if you like to meet Asian girls , you have to learn them and let them learn you. Be careful , not only in Thailand there are hookers !! all of the world , its depends how well they pretend to love you. so be careful. And again not all thai girls are hookers !! there are just ordinary girls you could meet. But do not be blind from sexy ladies who dressed like hookers ,
'you can take a girl out of a bar but you cant take a bar out of the girl' you will see.

What would be the best ways to go about this
and what are the possible problems?
' the fate and the luck' if you are lucky , you will get a good and nice girl , and know how to treat you as she loves you not your money. But if you are unlucky , you might first see very nice , lovely angel , but later she will take all your money.
So open your eyes and be aware of that.
To find a nice or good girl is more difficult to find a beautiful girl. So use ur brain , but again do not expect to go to Thailand only just a woman , more things you could see and enjoy , sightseeings alot in Thailand. Why do not you think that if its the first time for you to visit Thailand , just to learn this country and the second will be ,'woman' as you want ???
good luck !

Answer 6

How much do you know about Thai culture? It may not be a great match. Thai people (unless they are upper class and in that case would probably not marry a Farang) have a pretty carpe diem attitude about money. If you have it, spend it - mostly on status symbols and gifts to relatives. Allot of westerners think that they are like that because they are trying to scam money. In most cases that’s not right, it is just the culture. I would suggest finding a woman who has no contact with her family or who has no living family members. To western eyes it reeks of exploitation when a Thai girl marries a Farang and suddenly members of her family come out of the woodwork wanting money. The westerner needs to understand that the family would treat a Thai husband the same way if he had money and he would see it as them giving him an opportunity to show what a good giving person he is. The wife will be embarrassed if you don't give out money, it will make her look bad. If you marry a Thai woman who has a large family you will fight about money all the time. She will lie to try to get you to give money to her family. You will be enraged because she lied to try to separate you from your money. She will wonder what the big deal is - sure she lied but only to do her duty as a daughter AND A WIFE by trying to get you to show that you are generous. The cultural differences are such that both you, and she, will feel like you are dealing with someone who is being totally unreasonable. Make a plan from day one of how much money will be going to her family, and make sure she understands that you are going to stick to that. Also, if she is poor explain to her how much money is needed to get by in the US and DON'T make her think / let her believe that you are rich unless you really are. Make sure she understands that in the US people have to save for retirement because families don't provide for old people, and that in most cases no one will help you if you go broke. If she is not very worldly it would never have crossed her mind that there is a place where the families don't provide for the elderly. The best advice comes in 2 parts: 1 - DON'T DO IT!, and 2 - You can be in Los Angeles or in Pattaya and if you are 50ish and she is a super hot 20-somthing the chances that she "really loves" you are exactly the same - slim and none.

Also to "Redhead" funny that she assumes that you want to marry a Thai woman because no American woman would have you. I guess she would be reluctant to accept that most white men are far more attracted to Asian women than to white women.

Answer 7

i suggest you go to thailand and stay there for a while. marriage is not an instant thing like an instant coffee or the like. you must take time to know more of the woman u are planning to marry, if u ever find one who piques ur interest, and u can not do this in just a day or two.

once u meet the lady of ur dreams, u must give time for ur relationship to blossom. that is after ur initial encounter u can go back home to the US and keep in touch with each other thru the internet and the phone. ur relationship must be able to withstand time and distance, but u can also visit her regularly for u to have the opportunity to know her deeper and see if u can complement each others personalities. love is a two-way and give-and-take relationship where no one has the monopoly over the other.

the posssible problems are cultural in nature that is thais are asians and generally are conservative and the other thing is language barrier. thais generally are not keen on the english language and communication can be a problem.

Answer 8

Walk off the plane. Get in the cab to the hotel. Tell the cabbie that you want to get married. All the elligibles in town will know instantly. Really... This is not a big deal in thailand. Almost the first question you are going to be asked is "Are you married?" or Where is your wife?" Just remember. Its not like the states. When you marry in southeast asia you don't just marry the girl. You marry the whole family. Usually a very big family. you can tell pretty much right away if they are just after your money. If the family is hitting you up for "loans" right off, you know what they want. Take your time in Thialand. Its very inexpensive to live there so give yourself time to meet some real people not just the girls of Bangkok. I definitely prefer the north of Thailand in the Chang Mai area and the people are deffinetly less mercenary. You are going to have a blast. The best women in the world. They really treat you right.

Answer 9

Take it you are old and wrinkly and cannot get any decent woman in the US.
The only reason a Thai woman will marry you is for your money and visa into US - then all her family will be coming over to live with you.
An aquaintance of mine mortgaged his house to finance his Thai dream.
If you know all the pit falls and still want to do it - good luck to you

Answer 10

by going to thailand... as i know, d south thai has many beautiful girls. but beware, most of them are prostute and there are terrorist activities. i know because i live at malaysia. y dont u go to up north thai? That place is mild and nature still take it place. it is safer than d southern thai... girls even more beautiful there n most of them are farmer. u would hv a virgin wife then...