I had a girlfriend and supposely she was a virgin when we did it but i feel that she lied to me how can i know

Answer 1

I HAVE TO TOTALLY DISAGREE WITH THE FIRST PERSON THAT LEFT YOU ADVICE. If she said she was and you really care for her then you will believe her .. If you don't trust her thats a horrible way to start your relationship. Besides what she says theres no way to tell unless you had her checked by a doctore before you engaged in the act of having sex. Sorry!! But that question about the bleeding and pain is a bucnh of BS .. Yes its painful .. But some people DO NOT BLEED its part of their anatomy. It is normal to bleed, but bleeding that is so minimal she would only notice it if she was waering a pad or looking for it.. Hope this helps..

Answer 2

You had a girlfriend????

Anyways...were you a virgin? There is not always pain or blood involved.... does she masturbate? I think the real question is why does it matter to you.... I doubt you are innocent and fresh so try to look past this. I hope you used protection, because regardless if she is a virgin or not STD's are possible.

Personally I would never date a virgin, I have no time to put a boy in training for man hood....I expect the treasure without a map!!

Answer 3

I disagree with the poster who responded that it doesn't matter if she lied, if she makes you happy it's fine. It's not fine if she told you she was a virgin and then you wound up with an STD or something. Not saying that's what happened, but my point is, if she lied about her sexual history, what else can she lie about? Assuming she lied at all, but there really is no way to tell, apart from maybe asking her friends if she had been involved with anyone else before you.

Answer 4

You really can't know unless she tells you. Although the first time a woman has sex, it breaks the hymen and usually there is a little bleeding and it is a bit painful for the woman. Did you notice anything like that? Does it matter if she was or wasn't? Are you? Don't use a double standard on her. If you like her, forget about it, it isn't important.

Answer 5

It does matter much to you rather than the mere presence of your gf?

I guess if she says yes, you better believe because if she finds out that you're doubting her words she'll get hurt.
Anyways, what's the point of saying she's a virgin if she really not? When you have sexual contact you'll find out though.

Answer 6

Why do you feel she lied to you. Contrary to popular thought, there is not always any blood since the hymen can be stretched and broken by other means than intercourse. I think you should not have sex with this girl any more if you do not have trust in what she tells you.

Answer 7

You can really never tell, and all this bull crap about hymen break is stupid. Women can break their hymen from merely horseback riding, excericing etc and not even know it. Also, this stupid crap about it hurting is also very stupid. If she told you she was a virgin, I would be inclined to believe her, I mean she gave her body to you. From the south of this question, however, it seems like a mistake.

Answer 8

Let me get this right...You had sex with a girl you dont trust. Thank Goodness you'll never have the answer to your question. There is no way to tell, the damage is done! Now, make sure, you can trust the next one. Ok?

Answer 9

Lying is bad in a relationship but whether or not she is a virgin doesn't mean anything.....

Answer 10

Maybe she shouldn't lie to you. But why she need to lie to you? It's because your problem? You can't accept a non-virgin?