please help me?

Question

my babys father wont stop yell at me he says its my falt because i cheated but from me cheating should make my life hell or should to me i fell like i may diserve a lil bit but he hits me and brakes my things every time i try to leave i end up talking to him because he has someting of mine

Answer 1

No matter what a woman does she never deserves to be hit. I had a boyfriend that used to bash me and for years i believed it would stop. He used to even cry after he'd belt me. It never stopped. Ur better than that. Get what you can and leave.

Answer 2

Girl, you need to leave. If you cheated, he had to do something to make you cheat right? If not, then I don't know how you ended up cheating. Like I said before, you need to leave him because no man has the right to put his hands on a woman in that kind of a way.

Answer 3

Take your baby and go to the YWCA, dont tell the father you're going. Get a restraining order on him, and if you need to get anything from him the police can escort you. Kinda hard to get back together with a policeman over your shoulder. The people at the YWCA should be able to help you with this.

Answer 4

Call the police. Pack only what you NEED. Leave the rest, it's not worth it. Your well being is more important than any material thing you leave behind. NEVER LOOK BACK, NEVER GO BACK. He will never change and you deserve better.

I know it's not easy. I know it's scarry. But I did it and you can do it too. It might be hard at first, but you will be much happier.

Answer 5

If he hits you get out. He will do the same to your child. RUN as fast as you can and hide from him. Call the police and tell them that he hit you. Get a Restraining order and lose the guy.

Answer 6

baby father or not he should never touch you. and if your pregnant he especially should never touch you. and i hope he's not doing this around your child if he is this means you need to call the cops and get a restraining order. if you don't it will continue and this could lead to worse things like one of you ending up dead God forbid but i see it everyday im a correctional officer so i see women that have been abused or men who killed their wifes or gfriends due to abuse. don't take it take a stand and call the cops. do it for your child!

Answer 7

Please tell someone close to you, whom knows you and your situation, that can give you close advise. Call your local religious institution, even if you are not religious, ask for counseling, specially if there is children involved. Call the police if you need to, just GET YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN/CHILD OUT of this unsafe environment, protect them and get out now ! Nothing material is worth you staying there, Get help for you and your kids!

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Answer 8

if you care about your baby at all, LEAVE Him now and leave whatever he has of yours. you have to be there for your baby and not worry about him. he is a loser, any man that hits a woman is. your baby need to see you at your best and live a happy life, there is no way that can happen in that environment. leave him now...........go to a shelter if you have to but do it for your child...that child deserves better.

Answer 9

sounds like you need to remove your child and yourself from that situation. Forget material things, your baby's well being is the most important. Get out, get an EPO, and move on.

Answer 10

nobody deserves a men like that regardless of the situation so what u made a mistake nobody is perfect and temptations are very high unless you cheated on him on purpose dont worry about him and if he keeps on like that leave him you can do better