Ok there is this guy friend that i really like and i wanna talk to him but i think he aint ready to have a girl or he doesnt want no girl, i think he just want sex... But iam that type of girl that wont just dot it with anybody he has to be my man....
So the question is should i do something with him ? would it make me look bad? Or is the correct way is for him to be my man...
WHAT DO YOU THINK PLEASE HELP!!!!
2007-05-17 16:31:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you shouldn't be doing anything of the sort until you can at least use proper English.
2007-05-17 16:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is a question that only you can answer. I am glad to read that you want a relationship to have sex with a man. This means that you respect your body. However there are people who are a little more loose and have casual sex. It doesn't bother them and they enjoy it. Ask yourself if you have sex with this guy and it leads nowhere how will you feel and will it be worth it. Don't be ashamed to be attracted to someone and have sex but if it would hurt you to be used that way then the answer is obvious.
2007-05-17 23:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by hashumor919 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't have sex with him, if you do he will think all girls are like that. It will make you look easy and then people will ask you to have sex with them.
You need to explain to him that sex is out of love and a long relationship. Sex is telling someone I give my entire body to you. Be close then have sex.
2007-05-17 23:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by speedstyxstyx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont do it baby. thats never the way to get a guys attention. guys like that are the kind that hit it and quit it. he wont want to be ur man after that cuz he already got what he wanted. just be careful.
2007-05-17 23:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by shutupndrive 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nah. If all he want's is sex, then he'll just leave after he gets it. Try and get to know him more and become close friends. Maybe he'll realize you'd be a good girlfriend, and thigns could go from there.
2007-05-17 23:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best way to go about sex is to do it with someone your in a relationship with. if your not dating this guy then dont do anything with him. talk to him and try getting to the point where he says something about having a girlfriend. good luck
2007-05-17 23:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the only reason he wants to be with a girl is for sex, than don't even waste your time on him. He 's not worth it.
2007-05-18 00:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a hobby, girl.
Don't do anything that you are going to regret later. He may not be around for your whole life, but you will, and you will remember for good or bad what you did.
Keep your dignity.
2007-05-17 23:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by snoweagleltd 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think that all he wants is sex then listen to your gut instinct and don't do it. It won't make you look bad per se, but why have have sex when you want so much more? Make him earn it, and if he won't wait, then forget him.
2007-05-17 23:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is not ready. All guys want sex so that is not a factor. Find someone else, sweety.
2007-05-17 23:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋