I just want someone to call my own.
It feels like it'll never happen though.. I can't shake this feeling of lonelyness. I feel sad about it alot. And it's been this way for a good year or so too.
WTF are all these feelings for?
I'm also tired of people telling me to be patient.. I'm tired of being patient I have been patient and nothing has happened.
2007-05-17 15:57:01 · 17 answers · asked by nilleh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you ask how old i am.. I'll be 18 in less than a yr..
I've only had one bf in my life before . he was my first everything... I even lost my virginity to him...
He broke up with me about 2 weeks ago.
When I started to go out with him I was happy but he strted ignoring me and treating me like **** so that went on for about 2 months and then he boke up with me.... THat's not the point though.. zThe point is that I am un happy with my single life and idk what to do.. I feel like I'll never meet a boy I liked as much as him. ever.. Like that was my first and only chance... He was the first guy that I liked that actually liked me back. ...
2007-05-17 16:05:14 · update #1
They are part of the psychological makeup that makes us a social animal.
We need that contact with others and you have an accentuated need right now, that's all.
Just remember that we all give off energy vibrations and others pick up on them. These can be slight or intense and often good or bad.
Relax, learn about life and yourself and let time provide you with your desires.
All will work out.
2007-05-17 16:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mr realistic...believer in truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello;as i was reading your question i thought to myself,you sound just like i used to be.i don't take lightly of your feelings at all,now you may not like the answer but it is the truth ok,are you ready(it's your attitude)before you get defensive listen to me,you are so tired of waiting that you have allow yourself to take on a bad attitude and belive me people including guys do not like to be around someone who carrys a bad attitude and they do not care why your being that way,they just know they don't want to be around it.honey i am not trying to make you feel bad about yourself at all,but unless someone tells you the truth this will not just go away on it's own.you have to work on it.be the wonderfull person that God made you to be,retrain the way that you think
1.don't be so negitive
2.stop complaining all the time,just cause things are not falling into place when your own attitude is the reason why.
3.look at yourself in the bathroom mirrer and say i love you,your a beautiful person.,you no doubt think this is so stupid,but honey if you don't even love yourself then that is what you betray to tthose around you.
4.find something good about everything&everybody.
5you can make yourself happy(it is a choice your making every day,and in being negitive you have defeded your self before you ever walk out the door of your home.understand?keep your chin up,be fill with joy and you'll find ,that what your looking for will come to you....take care sweety your going to be just find,if your willing to face the truth.(there has been others who have toled you the same thing hasn't there?)LISTEN.
2007-05-17 16:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As many times as people say 'the right guy will find you' and all that crap you still have to go out and get people interested. Hit up some parties or do some new activities to meet some new people. You'll meet someone to be in a relationship, or at least waste some time with.
2007-05-17 16:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just need to know someone will be there for ya. B/f ..G/F..or just a friend, its nice to know you have someone who cares. Maybe its insecurity, maybe its a fear of being alone...i've been there to and know how u feel..I'm not gonna tell ya to be patient or BS like that. Lonelyness is not fun at all. Hopes this helps you some. I can talk more about it if you would like to on messenger if you'd feel more comfortable. Take care and have hope.
2007-05-17 16:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by eternal_conflict1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...been there. i became involved in to many activities to even have time to think about being on my own. You know what happened then...men became interested and I had no time to date I was so busy. So I went on a dating rampage because I was getting so much attention. I couldn't make up my mind who I liked so I just kept things casual. I suddenly realized I had no time to myself anymore and was exhausted from all the dating. So what did I do? I stopped dating to take a break and be by myself again to rejuvenate and grow.I found out what I am really all about and guess what? I like spending time in my own company because I am pretty dam cute and smart not to mention creative! Hope this helped.
2007-05-17 16:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Starlite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have them feelings because everyone feels like they need to be loved. That is just life and totally normal. Have you tried looking? You can join volunteer groups and meet some awesome people through that. You dont have to be alone, but dont fall for the wrong guy either :) Good luck!
2007-05-17 16:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been going through that for quite some time now. all i can tell you is to keep your head held high because it will get better. just typing this is getting me all teary eyed. lol. Flirt, put your personality out there and let them all see how great of a person you really are, something will happen soon enough. i hope.
2007-05-17 16:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by purplegrape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't have a good friend.
My best friend.. I can tell her anything.
I don't long for relationships because me and her help
eachother throughout anything. I just have fun with guys once
in a while... Maybe you just need to get out more.
Socialize more?
Hopefully... Talk to someone about this, not a good feeling.
2007-05-17 16:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bella ragazza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you have a little depression.. You need to find what makes you feel lonely and sad and tell close friends or close family that actually listens to you...And see if you can fill the void of loneliness....
2007-05-17 16:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not we are all created to be loved and to love. that explains why we spend so much time tryin to find happiness in thing's that don't last. my advice to you is go and get involved in something. that doesn't put the focus on yourself. volunteer at your local homeless center or get involved in your local church. the main part of finding happiness is helping others. i really think you'll be surprised what you'll find there.
2007-05-17 16:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by hootman531 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋