I know there is no straight answer..it really dependson each situation. Have you guy's ever felt like you were with the ONE, and you were wrong? What about breaking up with someone and getting back together again (months, years later)? Because I am truly heartbroken. I was with my bf for over two years (my longest relationship) and we did everything and knew pretty much everything about each other..it just seemed so good. its been 3 months now and i really ..dont think i can EVER get ove rhim and that there will be no other guy for me. I truly feel that ( i know , really lame and horrible to think that) but thats what i feel ...I just don't know what to do in the meantime while he figures things out. I find myself crying every so often and puttin my life on hold. How long is this going to take for me to be okay? Why do i feel like he really the one? I am willing to wait. I know what you guys will say (move on, blah blah), say it..but im hopin for a wide range of answers also.
2007-05-17 15:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never ever get over anyone you really care for. But you move on and live with it. That is life. And you learn to choose better each time until finally you choose right.
2007-05-17 16:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll take as long as it takes. I know thats not the answer you want, but that's just the way it works.
I've been in that situation before, a few times actually, and I can tell you from experience that this will pass. The day will come when you will find yourself not feeling so sad anymore, when you will have to "try" to make yourself still feel sad, because you're so use to feeling that way. It is then that you will realize that you are finally getting over that person.
In the meantime, keep yourself as busy as possible. Try not to be alone. Do different things than you did when you were a couple. If you went to the movies together, or had a favorite restaurant, don't go there for a while. Instead get together with your closest friends and hang out. Sometimes close friends can give good advise and give you comfort. But in time, you will over him, and a whole lot stronger than you ever thought possible.
Good luck to you.
2007-05-17 17:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me sweetie when I say I feel your pain. I was with this guy for 6 1/2 yrs. We broke up once before the BIG break up and I honestly thought I would never get over him. He was my first real EVERYTHING. We even talked about getting married. Everyone told me to move on, but its not that easy. But the only thing you can really do is wait. You have to wait it out and let time heal you. I tried dating other guys and it didn't work all I thought about was HIM. It may take months, even a year to get over him, but it will happen. You may not ever be totally over him. But it will get easier with time and eventually you will be able to move on and love again
2007-05-17 16:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by PlayToi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what you have to figure out..is that you 're not alone in that situation ..and it's only been 3 months ...those things take time...Allow even a year ....!! my advice to you is to accept the facts , resist the urge of calling him or talk to him ...and keep moving on ...it will be hard like hell but at least 6 to 1 year , but, you'll be ok ..!! and also weigh the fact of why you wanna get back with him ..does he still love you ? have you suffered in the relationship ? weren't you addicted ..? the reason you broke up could come over again ...!! well, grow up , ok?
Good Luck !!
2007-05-17 16:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by bobby s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun... I know the feeling.. I'm going through this at this very moment I was in a5 year relationship where I gave my all and instead he cheated on me and impregnated the chick... I love him with all my heart he was my first and only one I have loved and I'm heart broken I was with him since I was 16 and now I'm 21 and single... Don't put your life on hold until he decides not that I'm saying to move on just try to keep yourself occupied...
We can't help who we love OR CAN WE? I just hope you recover from this breakup I'm doing okay but I also find myself crying at times thinking of all the things we went through in five years and how he decided to replace our love for someone he liked but I hope there is someone out there who will value me and love me for who I am.... GOOD LUCK you deserve better and deserve to love and be loved.... LOve is a precious gift that at times we might be hurt but then again we recover and learn from our experiences... :)
If you ever feel the need to talk to someone you can email me at Lusciousprdr@yahoo.com
2007-05-17 16:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by marleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a month or 2
2007-05-17 15:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your own console. only you know the answer. nothing anyone else say will ever made a difference to what you're feeling.
2007-05-17 16:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋