my friend had this guy who she liked i had introduced myself and we locked eyes immideatly they went out and he still talked to me like he wanted me.....they broke up and hes still tryin to get with me , i am soooo attracted to him in everyway but they still tell each other they love each other and they still talk "friends with benifits" they say wat should i do?? go for it...or leave it alone?
2007-05-17 15:34:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave it alone unless they definitely break up. Do you want to end up in her shoes?
2007-05-17 15:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by doovinator 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there;personally i wouldn't,rember this all through your life! it's really good advice;never follow your emotions,they will lie to you every time,if not quided by wisdom,knowlege.above all things get an understanding every time you just follow some stupid feeling your going to wind up in such a mess you will find it so hard later on to get out of it.please reconsider.i know you may think i don't know what i am talking about,but i asure you i do..i went the way your thinking about many years ago and i promise you i brought so much junk into my life and lost a great deal of respect from a lot of people i love.finalliy after the mess i created myself ,my life is getting back into reality instead of all the junk i let my emotions tell me what was right,boy was i so wrong,please don't make the same mistake i did ,it won't be worth it in the long run.(i am telling you the truth)do you really think i would share such a thing if it wasn't the truth?...take care now.
2007-05-17 15:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they broke up yet they are still friends with benefits? I guess by that theory your friend shouldn't get mad if you date her friend because after all they're only" friends'. I'd leave it alone cause it sounds like you'll be getting hurt in the long run
2007-05-17 15:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone...your integrity with your friend should weigh more heavily than your attraction to this guy. Do you really want "sloppy seconds"?
2007-05-17 15:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Fee4Lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, you don't screw with your friends man. It doesn't matter if they broke up or if she says it's ok. It's never ok to date a friends exboyfriend if you value your relationship.
How would you feel?
2007-05-17 15:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by stacy_branch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It works for some, but not many. Why take a change and get your heart broken.
2007-05-17 15:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave if you and him have sex then will between both of yall and tell you and her the same things over and over just so he can get some
2007-05-17 15:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is friends with benefits, you can take it or leave it. but what if he still keeps her on the side, can you deal with that?
2007-05-17 18:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE IT ALONE. Their in their own kind of relationship.
2007-05-17 15:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd definitely leave it alone. there's always somebody else out there that is better. he doesn't sound too decent.
you can do better. best of luck!
2007-05-17 15:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋