guys have you ever led a girl on (let her thinking you were interested) thinking you were being nice but only later finding out it was a bad idea... especially if she started to really like you.
THis guy that i like , he stated that he basically isnt interested in me (in a complicated nicer I think way) and then he asks if he can have my number, later he says that he and I will be going out soon :s I think he is leading me on... making me feel like i may have a chance with him... i think hes just trying to be nice... or he feels obligated to be nice to me.... because i said that he was attractive..
2007-05-17 15:19:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yo that dude is a playa in training his teacher is teaching him wrong either that or he not taking it the right way.And yes he playing you girl open your eyes
2007-05-17 15:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I don't know if I led her on exactly...
I knew she was interested in me. And I knew it would never work out, since I'm in the military and was getting ready to deploy to Iraq (which I am there now). I was back home one last time to spend time with my family and friends, and my sister tells me her friend likes me. She remembered me from before, even though I failed to recognize her. But she dropped the subtlies, and let me know flat out that she liked me. I didn't want to have an interest in her (remember, I barely knew her), because I was leaving home in a few days back to my duty station, and I didn't want to lead her on thinking I did. So all night, I played mind games with her, throwing my own questions to attack her questions of "Do you like me?" things. Through the night I was successful. I even ended it successfully through my trickery. It wasn't mean, I was actually being very nice and friendly. I had her laughing through the night. But when it came down to it, she had gotten the message and left my house shortly after midnight. I don't know if she still likes me or not, haven't been home since, but perhaps I'll find out once my deployment is done!
That is what I think leading on is. This guy, right now, you can't really tell, but it seems like he's interested in you. But be careful of the game. He may be a Player, if you catch my drift...
2007-05-17 15:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Niko? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-10 05:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happens. I'm a female but I'm guilty of leading guys on. I don't do it on purpose but it just happens. For example there is this guy I know has a crush on me, I knew it before he even admitted it. But I just want to be friends. I have even agreed to hang out with him when I get back home. I think he feels im teasing him and the hanging out will be a date......Basically this guy you're talking about may be like me and not intentionally leading you on but really wants to be friends. Accept that and move on.
2007-05-17 15:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do this all the time. Lead a not so good looking girl on and make her think all sorts of things. It can be fun watching her jump through his hoops. Even better if you can show off the weird girl that likes you to your friends.
2007-05-17 15:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like it to me, and I'm not even a guy.
I'm sorry. Why don't you be the one to give HIM the boot, now? If he asks you out again, or suggests that you two should go out, give him the "I'm sorry, I only think of you as a friend" line--and see how embarrassed he gets!
I guarantee he'll try to backtrack like nobody's business. :)
2007-05-17 15:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. No guy will ever ask for your number and be going out, unless he said explicitly "as a friend" just to be nice.
2007-05-17 15:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by space monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I've done that, but I've never meant to hurt anyone or to lead them on to begin with.
If that's the case, then just move on to the next guy.
2007-05-17 15:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋