Okay, I'm searching for serious, mature answers... why is it so very difficult for me to meet A VIRTUOUS WOMAN? Question 3 in my profile will get you up to speed, while the following are a few details about me.
The typical feedback I get from women is that I’m an intelligent and handsome guy. I feel I’m a modest 8, on a scale from one to ten, so I feel I’m a good catch. I am well-spoke, carry myself in a very professional manner, and I usually dress the part. My avatar is an appropriate reflection of my style. And I’m NOT the stiff, serious type with no sense of humor. I meet women in common (not off the wall) places. The two women I refer to in question 3 - I met at the track during a workout and the other I met in the pharmacy section while checking out. So I generally don’t go out in search of women; I simply take advantage of everyday opportunities to meet them. So no bar/club-chicks or the sort.
2007-05-17 14:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Intrigue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I’m not afraid of rejection, so I usually don’t have trouble walking up to a woman and initiating conversation (that is... as long she is someone I happen to find interesting). My conversation is generally stimulating and I’m a great listener. And, in case you’re wondering, I’m not a womanizer who’s all about the sex. Nor am I married. I hope this is enough information to assist you in providing a mature answer. Feel free to shoot me a quick email if you have any questions or need more details about me. And ladies, please... mature answers only.
2007-05-17 14:47:38 · update #1
Stop lookin'. It's great that you have spent the time betterin' yourself as an individual and seekin' someone who invests in themself as well. But, one, great things come along when you aren't seekin' them out so much and two, diamonds are harder to find than rocks. Keep your head up and eventually you'll turn someone else's who is worth the effort.
2007-05-17 14:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been around the block a few times and can tell you with all sincerity that I never could figure women out. Its really like putting pieces of a puzzle together. What parts fit for me and for her.
It all comes down to one thing. You just have to run into the right girl. Its really as simple as that. Whats right for you and for her.
It may also take some soul evaluation on your part and examination of how you are coming across or is or percieved.
It may also be the kind of girl you are after. It may not be any of the above. Listen buddy, be yourself, make sure you are not coming on to strong and dont force anything. It will eventually all come your way!! Hang in there, no one said it would be simple.
2007-05-17 15:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, I think you were born in December. There, I know something that I didn't know before. When you are trying to find a person it is like submitting a resume, you have to go into the details that reflect what someone would want to know about you, so I think you did that, and not in a self-serving way. It is difficult for mature people to meet the types they want to meet, but when you see something interesting, nothing will hold you back. You just know what you want at this age.
2007-05-17 15:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by goodness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...it doesn't sound like its you, these women you meet are just probably not interested in dating anyone. Or they are cold hearted. It really is just a patience thing, and I'm sure everyone says this and no one wants to hear it. But honestly, be yourself and yeah introduce yourself, just know that when the right one comes shes going to like you for you. Again you arent doing anything wrong, just becarefull though when comming up to a womman you dont know, they may take it the wrong way.
2007-05-17 14:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by af86skyrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it takes a real woman to realize a good man when she sees one. Maybe the woman you go after is not the one for you. You may not be doing anything wrong is just everybody is looking for love just like you and if they don't get that feeling then they just don't. Don't worry you will find her if you are good as you say you are.
2007-05-17 14:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you belong to a church I would think that would be the best place for you to meet a virtuous woman. There are ladies that go to church to not only worship but to be with people and maybe find a man that is virtuous himself.
2007-05-17 14:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want to comment don't get mad. It sounds like your just an all around good guy or average joe. So its not you its just the women that you meet. You have not found the one that actually wants to be with you. Not sure if any women can find your problem, you have to find that out yourself thats no lie if you find out if your the problem then trying fixing it, but don't try to be someone your really not. Laters
2007-05-17 14:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have the same problem. I myself am a decent, loving, attractive person who would give the right man the world, yet the only men that hit on me are either married, losers, etc. My attitude is, I know that Mr. Right, is just right around the corner. It takes patience. Don't be so hard on yourself. Good luck to you.
2007-05-17 14:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i spent some time on the dating sites
this sounds like a sales pitch rather than sincerity
you come off as narcisstic to me
you have yourself so categorized, i would find you too stuffy and get bored quickly
someone who is too busy tooting their own horn, will never take the time to listen to you whether you are virtuous or not
2007-05-17 14:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by ann s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I missed the original questions because I'm confused.
2007-05-17 14:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by LA Law 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋