Ok I'm a virgin, and everyone is talking about sex, what should I do, pretend I'm not a virgin, be myself(the virgin), or walk away..or just confess? HELP PLEASE!!!
2007-05-17 14:37:40 · 17 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whose business is the status of your sweet little puder?
It's classless to talk about it.
Those kids are as clueless as all these posers, exaggeraters, and liars here on Yahoo Answers!
2007-05-17 14:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kia A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be yourself. Stand up for the fact that you're a virgin. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. In fact, it's something to be admired. Also, even if everyone in school is talking about it, it's likely that they are just trying to pretend that they are more experienced than they are. Be confident in your virginity. It's more honorable and respectable than sleeping around with random people (or even saying that you're sleeping around with random people).
(Although I do think virginity is a good thing, I'm curious about your screenname: lil mama?)
2007-05-17 14:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They usually exaggerate their stories of sex and all that ****. They're just covering up the truth and are just as insecure/immature as the person next to them.
Just be yourself. I'm still a vigin and in high school as well. There's nothing wrong with that, my friends don't care, they don't look at me differently, they don't act different - and if they do, they really aren't my friend, are they? Some of them crack a joke here and there, but hey, we all got to have some fun, right? We just make fun of each other about the little stuff, it's all good.
Besides, why lose it to someone who's completely worthless and just wanted sex? Sounds pretty selfish, doesn't it?
2007-05-17 14:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, being a virgin isn't a disease! Most girls who have had sex at a very young age regret it later and wish they had waited until they were older. In fact, I'll bet that those girls who are bragging about having sex are secretly regretting it already. They are probably a little jealous of you and wish that they were mature enough to say no to boys. I think you should just stay quiet about whether or not you have had sex and if they start to tease you or ask you direct questions about if you are a virgin, just say that: Your sex life is your business. And that when you are ready and mature enough and when you meet someone who isn't some pimply faced, immature boy who talks trash about every girl who he gets to have sex, and when you have a long relationship with that boy, only then will you have sex. Or you could just tell them that you think that you are special enough to wait until you are much older and mature to have a relationship. In any case, you are special and you should find a teacher at school who you like and ask her if you can talk to her about this. She can help you find a way to talk to your mom. Good Luck and be safe!
2007-05-17 14:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by llong 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you don't owe anyone a responsibility to tell them if you are a virgin or not. every generation goes through the same the phase.
most boys will tell their friends they are"getting more than the subway seat", not true.
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. in fact you are special because you are a virgin. means you have been considered, conservative and very thoughtful. not every young lady can say this and maybe are ashamed of their premature behavior. even more ashamed if they were tricked.
don't feel pressured to tell a story.
don't feel pressured to as hastily.
just be who you are, a smart and careful young lady.
2007-05-17 14:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone talk you into having sex just because everybody else seems to be doing it. You'll regret it. Don't be ashamed of being a virgin. And you don't need to talk about it one way or the other if you don't want to. If someone asks, just quietly tell them you haven't had sex yet & aren't in any hurry to do so or tell them you don't want to discuss it.
2007-05-17 14:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is important step and shouldn't be done out of peer pressure. It is also a private thing and isn't anyone else's business. Whether you wanna verbalize that you are a virgin or not is your choice but don't be ashamed. When it does take place, you will be glad you waited for the proper time.
2007-05-17 14:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pretend anything. Just join in the conversations if you're interested in what they are talking about, but don't volunteer your own personal information. People will judge you harshly if you ARE a virgin and others will judge you just as harshly if you're NOT one. You can't win when it comes to other people and their attitudes and judgmental opinions, so don't even try.
2007-05-17 14:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin is something to be proud of. You shouldn't have to announce it to anyone. I would just walk away.
2007-05-17 14:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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