today my boyfriend was barely talking, he said hes just thinking alot. but im not sure why. any ideas of what i should say next time i see him if hes still like that?
2007-05-17 14:34:01 · 20 answers · asked by emily j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i told him that im here if he needs anything and he said he knows. but it was pretty awkward for awhile and then i had to go.
2007-05-17 14:38:49 · update #1
what do you need to say?? he can act anyway he wants. to a point. if it made you uncomfortable or came along with him disrespecting you- let him know. otherwise, let him come out of the funk without nagging him. the next time you see him, and he's still funky, just let him know you're gonna give him some space and roll out. i'll bet the less you trip off his funky moods, the more he'll either share whats wrong or get his mind right when he realizes you dont intend for his funk to rub off on you.
2007-05-17 14:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by kimm24seven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is usually quiet when he's stressed out about something. He usually tries to act normal around me but it doesn't work. Just tell him that you're willing to listen if there's anything wrong and just be there for him and give him lots of hugs. Make sure he knows you care.
2007-05-17 21:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was high, or somethings on his mind. If I were you I'd give him some space to think about everything and then he'll talk to you about the issue when hes ready. if hes still acting this way down the line and doesnt change, then talk to him again.
2007-05-18 14:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by o0hhdangletzbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was having a bad day like the rest of us do sometimes...
You don't really need to say anything.
2007-05-17 21:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually means he's done something. I would just tell him if he's got something to say he might as well tell you, you'll find out one way or the other.
2007-05-17 21:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had problems at home, not enough sleep..
Try to talk to him, but if he seems reluctant, don't push it.
Just tell him that he can tell you anything, and you just want to help.
2007-05-17 21:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if hes losing interest in the past when my bfs acted like that they were ready to end it. he could also be having a bad day
2007-05-17 21:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs or alcohol change behavior
2007-05-17 21:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by rickytcraig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what's up and that he can tell you anything since your his girlfriend. obviously, something is bothering him inside and try to get things out of him.
2007-05-17 21:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch bc he might break up with u or something happened to him ask him whats wrong
2007-05-17 21:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by Snaggletooth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋