I've known this guy for awhile. He used to have a crush on my friend but then 3 years later I ran into him and we hung out. We talked for while and drank a lil bit.. Well one thing led to another and we did the grown up thing.. Well we talked for 2 months after that and all of sudden he stopped calling.. was it bad that i gave it up so fast??
2007-05-17 14:09:23 · 9 answers · asked by CARE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hehe... I hope it was good.
2007-05-17 14:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, of course. And to him, it was casual sex. Life isn't fair, but you young women must protect your virtue. It is the most important thing a good and respecting young man and old men like me too, look for. You girls must toe the line. Guys will make you believe it is love. Well maybe it is, but I'm here to tell you love is not "it". So, instead of dwelling on what happened, and it really is in the past, please learn not to in the future. There is no "time limit" for intimacy. Rather, how valuable of a love relationship do you want. If it's cheap, and free and easy, well guess what so are you, so is he, and a relationship built upon "I'll do anything to keep him" is no good now, and will never last. Stop thinking I can change him, or I'm desperate or such. For a long lasting love, life, and marriage, do the right thing. You know what it is, you know what is right. Take care, and you'll be alright.
2007-05-17 14:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Nifty Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it was not "bad" --- and he did not stop calling after you had sex --- if that was all he was after then he would not have called you at all --- maybe he found that there was nothing really there long term and looked for someone else --- the question is did you want the relationship to continue or did you feel the same --- that there was no future??? best wishes
2007-05-17 14:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Christy Lee said theres a 3 date rule.
2007-05-17 14:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Buddy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it was bad. you were a one night stand.
2007-05-17 14:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you already know the answer to your question.
we'd just be judging you. and who are we to do that?!
2007-05-17 14:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by danielle:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it was, this is why it doesnt pay to be a slag...pardon my french x
2007-05-17 14:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by suuuperdan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no do that to all the guys u meet.......
2007-05-17 14:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...probably
2007-05-17 14:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Em 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋