how do you know your in love with someone because i really like this boy for 2 years now and he knows he just wants to be friends though but i would jump in front of a bullet for him and if he says something mean i get mad but i still really care and will do anything for him. Am i in love? HELP?
2007-05-17 13:59:38 · 4 answers · asked by lilmis_94cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, I had the same situation. I never tried to sleep with her, but I was with her almost everyday. and everyday, I'd see her friends try to ask her out and she'd say no. then she would tell me that now she's weirded out by them. So I really didn't want to be one of those guys.
I stayed by her as a friend and barely spent anytime apart. We might as well have been living and loving together since we spent so much time together, laughed, cried, together and even caught zzz's with each other (no sex, no touching, and no pillow talk)
great relationship though. anyway I found someone that was interseted in my and gave it a shot, when I realised me and my friend weren't going anywhere.
so, me and my friend kinda faded away, and then about a year later, we had a quite moment in a car after seeing each other in a store. we talked and she told me that she still and always had loved me and I told her the same. but I was now taken, and she knew I would be faithful. But we did realise how much we missed each other..
about 4 months after that she got back with her ex from 3 years ago. and I realised then, through my newfound jealousy how much she ment to me than I though. I couldn't take the pain and self guilt of not taking my oppertnuity, anymore.
I told her I couldn't hang on anymore. And we cried. It was just to painful.
funny thing. we both did not say anything because of fear of breaking the incredible friendship we had.
Sex would have changed our relationship and niether one of us wanted to risk it
ultimatly, though we did ruin it.
Love is a funny thing.
2007-05-17 14:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you know your in love when you dont question it. You just have that feeling of butterflies everytime you see that person and you have a content mind set when your with that person. Like everything is peaceful
2007-05-17 21:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bottom line always is that if you have to question if your in love then your answer is your not.you don't question love it can't be defined, it's just there
enough said
2007-05-17 21:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by nadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you have to ask then you arent in love you will just know without questioning it
2007-05-17 21:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by vhaywood2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋