really important ?everyone plzz read?

Question

which do u agree with?
1. it matters whats ont he outside wheater to date them or not
or
2. its what matters on the inside that counts? (personallity, ect.)


i am jut wanting 2 know what america thinks

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Listen this will really ease your mind. What looks better a one dollar bill or a hundred dollar bill. 1 is out and 2 is in finding the best of both worlds getting someone that you feel looks good and someone that has good qualities on the inside, but thats hard to find thies days. I have noticed that even the so so looking ones have really bad mental issues. lol well as for the ones that are really attractive, well thats all great, but that don't last and my wallet started to get samller just for them to look good. So my advice take #2 don't take the bottom of the barrel of guys take the one that is not supermodel but your average Joe the one you feel comfortable with and go from there. Good luck and don't give up.

Answer 3

Truth of the matter is that people notice someone first because of how they look, that could be how they are dressed, how they sit, how their hair is, etc. People have to see before they know whether or not they are even interested in someone. So both 1 and 2 are important, but #1 comes first and then once you have that initial attraction then you find out what their personality is, #2. Physical attraction is known in seconds and then comes the rest. If I am not physically attracted to you first, in some way or another, the personality doesn't even have to show itself.

Answer 4

It mostly matters whats on the inside. I wouldn't be able to be with someone who was an @$$, didn't have any sense of humor, or had no personality at all. But I also think that looks matter a little. You should be somewhat attracted to the person your dating. If you look at them and think that they are ugly or whatever, it probably wouldn't work out because someones feelings would end up being hurt. This is just my opinion on this!

Answer 5

both matter a lot i'm not a very deep person but i know people should look at the inside first. i kind of have a problem with that, because i look at the outside first i know i shouldn't but i do i don't think i can like somebody because they are really cool if they are not my type from the outsidde it won't work. so it's rally stupid for me to say inside, personality is what counts but it's true,and i'm going to stop being so shallow

Answer 6

#2
personality over looks anyday,
cute just doesn't cut it any more
i prefer a sweet charmin kindhearted
respectful guy.rather than a cute messed up mentality
looks dont matter anymore in the real world that is.
am not saying that a beautiful personality with a cute face
decked to the end of it,wont be good.its the inner being that matters at the end of the day.

Answer 7

It's always best to get the total package. You could be with the sweetest person, but if their looks make you want to vomit, it's not going to work. On the flip side, you could be with an absolute hotty, but if thier personality is like nails on a chalk board, that won't work either. Unfortunately, there's no custom fit in an off the rack world.

Answer 8

The outside is what attracts people to find out more alot of times. BUT alot of times, people have friends that they realize they have feelings for over time. So it can go either way really, no hard and fast rule.

Answer 9

#2 - they could be butt ugly on the outside but whats on the inside matters more. You can find beauty in an ugly person if their personality and heart is right.

Answer 10

this may be why some people say 'what the heck is he/she doing with him/her - they could do so much better." Looks may be a first impression but who the person is on the inside leaves a lasting impression.