Guy help, por favor!?

Question

oaky okay okay. so heres the story.
I really like this guy, but I can't really tell if he likes me. It's kind of hard to get the usual signals from him, too, because i've known him since 3rd grade. And it really sucks, because the day he broke up with his girlfriend, i got a new boyfriend, my luckm of course. so i finally broke up with my boyfriend, but thats irrelevant. but i think it may have kind of turned off the guy i like.

So how can I get him to like me? I mean, obviously you cant MAKE a guy like you, but any idea on how to flirt with him so that he just doesn't think its a friendly thing, like we've been for the past who knows how many years.

Answer 1

Well, for one thing u need to calm
down and let him work his way 2 u,
and for another you need to get2no eachother,
find whatcha have in common(4 dating),ect.
When u start c-ing him smile a lot round u,
start flriting w/him,and that'll perk him up more.
The more u2 do that,the more he'll keep his n-trest
n the 2 of u b-n 2gether,then once you've been w/ each other 4 bout a yr or til u're comfertable e-nough w/him,
u2 can kiss,and then if u're lucky e-nough w/ him the 2 of u will get n-gaged,and u might nd up w/him 4 life!
(GL2U2 & hope all goes well,)
-Mrs.Sarah

Answer 2

Okay, I know exactly how your feeling. I have went through something sort of similar to your situation.
You think you have turned off the guy, right? Well not as much as you may assume. Does he know that you and your ex are no longer going out? If he doesn't then you need to let him know without being too forward with it. For example you can be talking to one of your friends about it and sort of try and get him to hear you without being too loud. Once he knows that you don't have a boyfriend, then everything is good to go. Just communicate with him more. Talk to him, make him laugh, laugh at his jokes, that sort of stuff. And don't do any of that "fake flirting" like when you twirl your hair and stuff like that. All that is old. Just take a couple of glances at him once needed. Try and sit next to him whenever you get the chance. And then once you feel like he has got the idea that you like him then have one of your friends sort of let it "slip out" that you a thing for him. See what's his reaction.

Answer 3

I think that chef (elzar or something) from futurama said it best, "Knock it up a notch, BAMM". Do something that will have him opening his eyes and goin, hey whats goin on here. Either that or you could just pull him aside and hit him with your emotions, but the flirting idea is less confrontational so more win :)

Answer 4

I say plant a big juicy kiss on his lips. See how he responds. If he does not kiss back, just say..."I was just wondering what it was like to kiss you." Then, walk away or keep doing whatever you was doing before. Laugh it off if it does not work.