without a girl being to obvious, how does she let you know its ok to ask her out??
2007-05-17 12:18:14 · 19 answers · asked by kiwi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh gawd this is a tough one. I think it depends entirely on the person. Like, if generally you're shy around guys, then just smiling at them lots, making more of an effort to spend time with them etc should let them know that you feel differently about them than what you do for other guys. Show that being around them is something you would like to do. On the other hand, if you're loud and speak you're mind, then the above advice won't work so well, because guys might think that you behave like that to all the guys you hang around. So, you might need to drop verbal hints, or even ask them.... O_O Sounds odd I know, but don't forget this also depends on the type of guy; whether he'll be able to pick up on subtle hints or whether he needs it spelled out for him. Bottom line is, if he likes you enough, show him that you like him too, and eventually he'll ask you out. Hope that this helped, even a little bit :)
2007-05-17 12:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not gonna lie, we suck at picking up signs. So really, the more obvious the better. Just make sure you act differently around the guy your interested in than other guys. If you casually flirt with most guys, intentionally or not, it is hard to pick up on where you really stand.
2007-05-17 12:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is wrong with obvious? Guys appreciate obvious. It means we're not going to pull our hair out trying to figure out what you're trying to say.
2007-05-17 15:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by smokingun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with being obvious? Just don't act too desperate or too pushy. Just walk up to him, and casually ask him out.
2007-05-17 12:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be asked, tell them lets go out or you will miss out on a lot.
2007-05-17 12:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I once got the hint from a bird in a nightclub when she walked over and handed me her underwear, turned out the dirty cow had followed through!
2007-05-17 12:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by thecoldvoiceofreason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not be obvious??. Us blokes are quite easy to work out, really unlike you women!!. Just ask him out .....
2007-05-17 12:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by mad123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is always confident and hanging out and talking to a lot of other people.
2007-05-17 12:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ichigo Lunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple...make eyes contact and smile, laugh, subtle touches and strokes. He should lap it up. Good luck.
2007-05-17 20:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why must the guy always do the asking? If you are interested ask him!
2007-05-17 12:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by jandersoninc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋