What makes a good Girlfriend?!?

Question

what do i do to make a man happy.....its important to make him happy....so are there ne ideas of wut i should do.....it can be nething.....sexual or not....w/e?!?!?

Answer 1

Good sex, class, a bit of a chase, NOT neediness or obsessive insecurity. A good listener.

Answer 2

First off, save the sex for last. lol. Cause once you do, thats what most everthing is gonna lead up to. Just keep things new and interesting. Try kissing different ways, tongue movements and such. Then, what is really good, is if you are cuddling, to rub your hand down the middle of his chest slowly. Almost everybody likes that one! Just respect his time and space and do what you feel is right. Just move forward but slowly, cause im DEAD serious on this one, as soon as you do, its gonna happen a lot more often than you would think. Just new stuff, like, try kissn him with you head upside down to his. Thats always fun, then diff things like tongue teases, rubbing, all that good stuff, just get creative, cause mostly he wants to expierement to!

Answer 3

In almost 30 yrs..i'm 41 btw..I've learned you have to give 150 %. Respect and appreciation come before love or trust. Thats repect and appreciate yourself also. Sexually, if it bothers you, dont do it. Satisify both of you. Oh and after about a week, if he isnt giving as well as receiving, start over with someone else.I dont mean just sexually, either. He wont respect you if he doesnt appreciate you.

Answer 4

to make a man happy is the same as making a woman happy. What do you expect from your man? Well he expects the same thing. Just be honest and real. Laugh alot and spend quality time together. Thats what makes memories.

Answer 5

u know what the funny thing i found (in my opinion anyways) out is regarding relationships?

the more Happy, Confident, Positive, Smart, Friendly, etc etc you are, the happier your guy will be! you gotta give him a reason to be proud to be with you, and glad that he's got a good catch. :) so it starts with you.

next, try to take care of him. support him mentally, emotionally (and physically to whatever extent u feel comfortable with... ). do not depend on ONE thing, like sex, to be the sole factor of the relationship.

if he does anything u dont' like, or is mean, do not hesitate or be scared to address it. Remember, a GOOD MAN will try to understand your concerns. anyone who ignores your feelings, is mean on purpose, etc etc, will not work with you on making things work.

u gotta be strong enough to let someone go too... that way it's more of a CHOICE that u guys are together, than just because u are having sex, or just cuz u both are lonely, etc. when u keep standards and stick to them, and try ur best to adhere to them and help your partner achieve them as well, then u are working on it together to be Good to eachother.


good luck

Answer 6

you want the "truth" or the TRUTH?

because the "truth" would be that you need to do this and that and try to please him and so on and so forth.

and the TRUTH is that he has to love you and you have to love him. then and only then you have a good boyfriend and a good girlfriend. then you will subconciously do things that please the other one (with exceptions of course, this is where you both make an effort). both of you need to be pleasing each other equally much, otherwise all the pleasure will go in one direction. thus one will be completely broken and the other one will grow an ego the size of the sun.

so careful with all the pleasing.

Answer 7

I think a good girlfriend is open, honest, loyal, has a good sense of humor, tries to get into some of the things I'm interested in and feels good about herself. A good girlfriend should be your best friend and lover.

Answer 8

Guys love alot of things. Just make him happy the way he makes you happy. Just play hard to get and don't be to easy cause guys tend to take advantage :)

Answer 9

Unconditional love.

Answer 10

ual at the apprpriate time