This guy james that i like just got out of a bad realtionship with his ex they were together for 3 years. and we have been hanging out and he said he isnt looking for a girl. but i can tell he really likes me.
2007-05-17 11:30:35 · 19 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so dont worry about it, ,he is wanting a friend which may lead to more unless you blow it and start getting all up in his face about it,, he is just out of a relationship and is just cool hanging for now,
2007-05-17 11:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like u said he got out of a bad 3yr realtionship, u have to give him. time to heal. all you can do is be there for him, he'll come around, and if you care for him tht much you'll be patient. He may be afraid that if her gets close to you, he'll get hurt again. be there and listen, he'll come around! good luck
2007-05-17 18:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you. But don't rush into anything right now. He is more than likely carring that extra "baggage" and you don't want that in a relationship. Wait until he is ready, and then talk to him about it. Guys like assertive women, so be upfront with him about the subject.
2007-05-17 18:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jason The Great 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just give him time. If you think he likes you, then he probably does, but he still has to deal with the crap that comes with a breakup.
I bet within a month he'll be all set! Hang in there :)
2007-05-17 18:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by redsoxmom1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants some one to hang out with for a while give him time to heal and be a friend and who knows what will happen after that
2007-05-17 18:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by going2md 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang loose for awhile but start wearing really flattering clothes...you know like smart dress pants that show off your *** and low cut sweaters that really accentuate the "girls"
2007-05-17 18:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to get over his ex-, comfort him, and just talk to him to make him feel better, and then when he starts getting over his ex- then flirt with him, and if it really seems like he likes you, then tell him.
2007-05-17 18:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by in l♥vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not looking his not looking i wouldn't push it give him time! maybe he wants to play the field for awhile after a long relationship you want freedom and be careful if you guys end up getting together cuz he will want a friend with benifits and you might end up wanting more then he is willing to give you
2007-05-17 18:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Eva B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be liking you cuz u are there for him and he just broke up with someone so he's vulnerable right now. if i were u i wouldn't rush things, even if u like him, let things go at their pace. cuz if u two were to hookup, and it doesn't work out for whatever reason, ur the one who's going to end up heartbroken. good luck to u both
2007-05-17 18:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by prchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it alone, you will end up being the rebound girl, not good. Give him some time and maybe something can happen later......
2007-05-17 18:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Gia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋