If you have an awesome first date with a guy, and he kisses you at the end of it, then have a good second date, and ask him to call you if he thinks you're worthy of a second date... you dont hear from him for a week but he winks at you on a dating site, what are you supposed to think?
2007-05-17 10:52:46 · 11 answers · asked by MCsnizz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be one of 2 things:
a)The guy is not that into you, and/or is seeing other women at the same time.
b)He likes you but is unsure on what to do next. He's probably scared he'll blow it. Guys are quite insecure as well.
I don't know all the details here, and I hate to give bad news, but it sounds more like possibility a)...
Good Luck.
2007-05-17 11:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Judge 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He winked at you to let you know in a good natured way that he saw that you are on a dating site even though you are going out with him (he caught you). Girls do this to guys too. At least he didn't get angry about it and say something mean, like a girl would. He probably thinks that you are dating other people, since you never deactivated your profile, and so he thinks that it is now ok for him to date other people too.
He probably isn't sure what he feels about you, and he isn't sure where this relationship is going. After only two dates, who can blame him?
2007-05-17 10:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come right out and ask online, if he's giving you the boot. There's nothing worse than sitting around waiting to hear from someone only to find out that they didn't want to pursue the relationship further. Ask the question so you can move on. Good luck! God bless!
2007-05-17 10:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by vanessamaypan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be interest in you. He should have called by now. If he doesn't call in another week, then don't stress over him. He should be chasing you, so he's not worthy of your time.
2007-05-17 10:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Babylesley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants you to make the next move. Guys like to be pursued too.
2007-05-17 10:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by STEVEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs his butt kicked. Its not fair that men can do this crap so easily. Just come right out and ask him whats going on. He might panick and lie, but then again, he might not.
2007-05-17 10:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by hollydollyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like.. yea it was a fun date gal i enjoyed it..but you now iam a busy guy and i like relations which has no strings attached.....did he had that twisting lip smile...?
2007-05-17 10:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you but isnt sure if you want him......let him know in no uncertain terms that you like him
2007-05-17 10:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by andy k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his playing games w/you...just move on
2007-05-17 10:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's thinking about it.. he's not sure
2007-05-17 10:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by paisa007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋