A question for everyone.?

Question

I've posted questions in the past that have asked if it's possible to meet male friends and a significant other if you're an unattractive guy. I've had people say yes, perhaps about of pity I don't know. I'm a well groomed guy, 6' tall, military hair cut, brown eyes, brown hair, and dress in a business-casual type of fashion. (button down shirts, khakis etc.) I don't have an attractive face, but I'm not obsese, or have a whacky hair style that would draw attention to myself. Yet, today while waiting for a bus, a group of good-looking teenage guys screamed at me. I've had people do this about 10 times over the course of a couple of years. Which makes me think that I must be a freak if teenagers feel the need to say s*** to me when I'm walking out in public. I don't know what to do anymore. The people I want to be accepted by the most treat me like s***. Is there any way someone like me could meet firnds and someone to care about. It seems hopeless. If someone makes of this

question I understand. I know I sound like a loser. btw I'm a 26/m from ny

Answer 1

Keep in mind Teens are mean and say cruel things because they can...
Are you shy? or stand offish? you sound very down to me. Feel free to contact me via email if you want to chat

Answer 2

Don't beat yourself up over the mean people out there. There are plenty of women who would like to have an average looking guy who takes care of himself, wants a decent future and is willing to work at a relationship. The hard part about all that is finding them.

Have you tried putting your profile on an internet date site? Its the way to go to meet people in your own neighborhood who share interests that you have. You can chat with them until you decide that you want to go further and meet them at a coffee shop or restaurant.

Give it a try! You have nothing to lose and a whole lot of great friends to gain. God bless!

Answer 3

my personal opinion and no i don't offer pity because it never helps a person but make him feel worse.
i am 100% positive that you will find your match,i just wish you had this much confidence in yourself,you sound like such a nice person,a girl would be blind to pass by and not notice you.my view on teens is that they all go through a rebellous phase which makes them mean and naughty to every and anyone.don't worry too much about them,because there are very nice people in other parts of the world who would truly be happy just to meet you,one day you will be thanking me lol
take care and God blesss.

Answer 4

First of the world needs more nice guys like you. I say screw the teens the are just kids and they don't know that real women don't care about looks. Real women care about whats inside and not whats on the out. Looks don't last forever but a kind heart does. Remeber that and your true love will find you soon.Jus tbe patient and let the woman you deserve find you.

Answer 5

How you perceive yourself is what you are going to attract. The solution is learn to see yourself differently. A good start is pick up a copy of the book "The Secret" or the CD version if listening works better for you. You start applying what you will learn there, you'll find yourself attracting a much better "karma".

Answer 6

you need to loosin up and dress in some thing else. then just go out and try yo have a little fun at a bar or some place that you can meet people. and don't worry about what people think of you they need to just keep to them self if they are going to be rude.

Answer 7

check out gay groups in your area. they have some specifically for young adults. it isn't only about looks so stop dwelling on that area.someones ugly is anothers dreamperson!

Answer 8

theres someone for everyone, people are assholes, screw em, but like i said theres someone for everyone!