We were high school sweethearts and have a little girl. We lost contact for a while (he couldn't deal with being a dad), but have been back in touch for about 6 months. He's a great dad now and matured a lot. I'm engaged to a great guy. My best friend and my ex boyfriend just told me that they've been dating the past 6 weeks, but wanted to wait to tell me until they were serious about each other. Part of me is happy for them, but another part is upset. Am I being a jealous baby?
2007-05-17 10:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Naw, you're not being a baby. Being a baby would be sneaking sugar in one of their gas tanks or setting fire to their wardrobes. Just kidding. ;-) It's only natural to feel a little jealous. Just tell yourself that you had the best of him, (your daughter) and she can have the rest. Personally I wouldn't want my BF's left overs. You've moved on. Who knows, one day you may actually come to be comfortable with the situation. (That's assuming it will even last.) Perhaps after you're married it wont matter to you about the two of them. For now, just let what will be, simply be, and enjoy your fiancee.
2007-05-17 10:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being a jealous baby at all!
I would hurt as hell over this..It is one thing for an 'friend' to date an ex-boyfriend (this is wrong enough in my books), but to date someone that she knowlingly knows you share a child with!!??? This is soo wrong on a moral and ethical level, and I hate to say this, but she is not a best friend, because no best friend would betray you like that and chose a man over a friend. Are you sure this girl did not go behind you back with him whilst you were dating him???
However, if you are truly over the relationship and happy with your latest man, perhaps it is something you can get over in time and the three of you can remain friends. But find out the whole story first about how they developed, I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who went behind my back and made a beeline for my man!
2007-05-17 10:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not right that your girlfriend is dating your boyfriend.
Ask your boyfriend why he didn't tell you earlier. I wouldn't end up with this guy. Go find another guy because if you think about it, if he just told you after 6 weeks then he will lie to you in the future. Break-up with him and find another guy. Because obviously your boyfriend isn't truthful and you friend leaves you out of a major thing in her life.
-Hope this helps! ^.~
2007-05-17 10:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. He is your ex for a reason (bc he's an jerk apparently) and she isn't a very good best friend. I have been there and i know what you mean. My bff started dating my ex in high school and i told her it was ok which was a bad mistake. They are getting married now and i still can't believe they did that to me.
2007-05-17 10:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really but if you two found other people that make you happy then that is all what matters but you just feel like he liked your friend the whole time and got over you so quick and i think that is why you are upset you should try not to worry about it it will only make things worse and more drama
2007-05-17 10:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by al 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 14, but to me I think it's natural that you're upset - infact you have a RIGHT to be upset. Here it is, the father of your first child ever going out with your best friend. I would be pretty upset too.
I think as long as you dont let your upset-ness(lol) take over your life to make you take it out on your ex-bf/best friend/kid/fiance/yourself, then you'll be fine
2007-05-17 10:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Diana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are. Hence the word "ex boyfriend" and the words "engaged to a great guy"...Be glad it's a woman you like since she will be involved in your little girl's life.
2007-05-17 10:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO your not..i dont think your bestfriend should be dating your baby daddy..just doesnt seem right..i wouldnt talk to her anymore if i were you but im not..then again i would be able to be in the same room with them..
2007-05-17 10:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lil Bit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may forget approximately approximately/pass away her or be together with her and be depressing. it is your decision. Or be her pal yet no longer an intensive one, make different acquaintances, and get on the threshold of them, that way you will no longer could desire to be with this interest in seek of pal.
2017-01-10 04:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your new guy and be happy for them. Life is too short!
2007-05-17 10:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by steveheremd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋