I AM SO DAM SERIOUS, I'M FREAKIN FRUSTRATED, I SEE EVERYONE HAS ONE, BUT ME!!!! WHAT FREAK IS GOING ON!!!! IF I CAN'T GET ONE SOON, SOMEONE WILL GET HURT!!!!!
2007-05-17 10:22:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, thats obvious. Understand the tone of your message. "Someone will get hurt!!!!" Thats the reason you can't get one.
Just be pateint. It took me all the way till 13 years old to get a gf. Its not that hard. Your either tring too hard or not tring enough.
Oh as for hurting people, emo kid. You shoot up a school or something, I'll personally find you and snap your neck. Thats no reason to hurt innocent people.
2007-05-17 10:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Could it be anger your issues are keeping the girls away? You need to chillax dude. If you reek of desperation no girls will want to be with you. Take it slow. Introduce yourself to prospective dates and try to show a softer gentle side of yourself. Take them out on dates that the two of you can enjoy and find out about each other through conversation. Something interactive like a picnic or a meal at a restaurant or diner. Give them a single rose, (request the florist to remove the thorns then point out that fact to your date. They will appreciate the thoughtful gesture since thorns can hurt.) Listen and talk. Be yourself, not your angry self, be nice. You'll meet her soon. Have patience and faith. Good luck.
2007-05-17 17:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't talk about a girl like she's a thing and you can't want a relationship with someone just to say you have a girlfriend. But if you do like a particular girl, just talk to her like she's a friend. Give her attention, not like starring at her or stalking her, but if she's sitting by herself or something sit down next to her and talk to her. And don't act all idiotic. I really like it when guys are polite, when they hold the door for me or say excuse me when I'm in there way or something. I also love funny guys, but don't be too obvious that your trying to make a joke. And keep your temper under control, its never hot when a guy is going around swearing because his team lost in gym.
2007-05-17 17:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why you can't get one. Be patient. You just watch, their girlfriends will dump them and then they'll be comin' to you askin' to hang. Not everybody has a girlfriend. There are some people in life that never get a girlfriend because they weren't patient. If you want a girlfriend, go out more. You seem like a person who doesn't hang enough. If your a gambler, got to cassino's, if your a drinker, go to a bar, don't drink too much, and keep your eyes open. Studies show that there are more females than guys, so don't worry, you'll find her. But I don't suggest stealing a girl from your peeps. They'll get mad and girls are not to be played w/. We are not to be bossed around. Loosen up, and sit back. Enjoy life w/out a girl for awhile and she'll come to you. Oh and, please don't hurt me!!!
-hope this helped!!!
2007-05-17 17:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all calm down, Not many women like it when I man is very aggressive, pushy and seems goal oriented. It isn’t nice being alone but you wanting a girlfriend because you see that your friends have girlfriends is not the best reason to want to date. Be calm, confident, talk to women, no horrible pick up lines, don’t be too aggressive and start out with a good conversation. In time it will happen.
2007-05-17 17:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, "someone will get hurt" that's funny. btw, u'r standards are probably too high but if that is exactly what u want, i wouldn't suggest u lower it. maybe what u need to do now is make loads of female friends. I know how frustrating it can be(trust me, i'm in that same position right now) but the right girl will come when u least expect it. a little patience i would suggest.
2007-05-17 17:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be happy u dont have some psycho girlfriend! also dont rush into the first girl u meet....take some time...dont settle for anyone. relationships are nice sometimes...but being single has some great perks....like not having to answer to anyone..being able to do what you want...being with one girl one night and a totally different one the next...if i were u i'd go out and have fun with many girls...i wish i wouldve done that with the guys...but i was always with a "boyfriend"...so have fun...
2007-05-17 17:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by stardust 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
right the simple answer is go out and go drinking buy a girl u like the looks of a drink and start talking at the end of the night when u r drunk use a chat up line like ive lost my number can i have yours yes that line does work
2007-05-17 17:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by The real quagmire BBC Three 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be b'cos of your desperation. lol. Why is someone gonna get hurt just 'bcos you are not impressing any girl enough to want want to be with you. Talk to a fine gentleman who is related with you. Remember that it is not as rosy as it looks outside. Good Luck.
2007-05-17 17:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by Bantree 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you need a girlfriend? Why would you hurt somebody because of your faults for not being able to get a girl?
2007-05-17 17:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋