2007-05-17 10:18:33 · 31 answers · asked by crystalf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i am 19 and waiting til marriage i know kinda weird for a guy
2007-05-17 10:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by james d 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would it be a bad idea? It’s your choice to wait. Some people can’t and some can, and if you can more power to you. Maybe you are just waiting for the right man to share your love with and want it to be special and there is nothing wrong with that. Many people don’t wait, sleep around with different people and nothing ends up of the relationship. There is another good reason to wait for that right person who you trust and love, your health. There are many STDS out there and when people stop caring who they share their bed with it can be a dangerous lifestyle.
Do whatever makes you comfortable.
2007-05-17 10:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a beautiful idea! You will really improve your market value by waiting. I know that sounds kind of impersonal. Guys are looking for girls who have no kids or fewest number of, and girls who have not been the neighborhood good time girl. Then you come along with no kids and your virginity... you will be a great catch for any man and you will be able to have the guyof YOUR choice. Yes, wait. Get you college degree and a good job. A college woman with a great job, no kids, her own bank account and her virginity....OH MY GOD!!! A man could not ask for more. Yes, Wait!
2007-05-17 10:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Knowledge Thirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, not at all.
im older than u..(not that much) and im waiting too..
i just dont wanna do with anyone...
it must be special....
is good that ur waiting bc uwanna make sure he really loves u...a boyfriend is not guaranteed, but at least in marriage u know he wont just tap that and leave...u just know that there is more than just ur body he wants...
please try and keep urself..no matter how hard it is...
by doing that u save urself so many heartaches...
ur body is sacred, dont let no one play with it and take a peace of u away each time
stick to the right man...every woman wants to b the last woman that he will love, and every man wants to b the first in every womans life...
man like strong and faithful women...if u waited this long, he knows he can trust u
2007-05-17 10:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the bad idea is asking others to tell you if its a bad idea. No it's not a bad idea to wait, good for you. I didn't wait, but thats my decision. I support waiting till marriage though, so keep up the good work.
2007-05-17 10:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's a great idea. i have known 3 couples who waited til marriage. i waited til i was 24 and wasn't married, and i regret not holding out.
the important thing is to not put yourself into a situation where you even have to think about saying "No". if you date someone, you have to put it out there that you will not be having sex. It's very easy to let things happen when you're "fooling around" or making out, so it's often best to just not be in that situation. You know yourself and what you can handle.
props to you for wanting to wait :)
2007-05-17 10:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Casey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waiting till marriage is the best idea.
2007-05-17 10:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Nan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety there is nothing wrong with waiting at all. you want your first time to be special and full of love and connection. things that most youngsters miss out on sex isn't the way it use to be dieases are every where. save your innocence for that person that will do more for you then just give you a good time. let your first time be with someone that will give you a lifetime not one good night. keep your head up sweety.
2007-05-17 10:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by blazz872000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl it's a great idea because most likely the guy you give it up to is either a loser, or someone you don't want to marry in the future.I have a boyfriend and even though he tries to get me to have sex, I still tell him that good two letter word N-0!
2007-05-17 10:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by nativebeauty22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It saddens me that society has made you think you have to ask this question. Only you can decide what is or isn't a bad idea for you. If you don't want to then don't. If a guy trys to make you or push you into it and you don't want to then he isn't the right guy so just keep on truckin' honey! :)
2007-05-17 11:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with everyone on this one.....I had sex before marriage on a few occasions and to be honest that is one of my biggest regrets in life.....it really is something special that should be saved for marriage....Be true to yourself and there is no shame in remaining a virgin it will be the best choice you ever made I promise you that....Sex is great but there can be a lot of drama involved if it is done before marriage
2007-05-17 10:24:46 · answer #11 · answered by mlp7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋