ok well me and my lover havn't done "it" in a while and there are signs that he's getting bored with it. I NEED some tips and examples, somthing new and fresh that'll spice things up between us. I've tried at lot of things but lets just say i'm not to creative AT ALL, help. I'd appriciate any ideas, sugestions, examples, tips, ect.
2007-05-17 10:12:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For guys it is all in the appearance. Play dress-up for him.
2007-05-17 10:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Warm Custard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tip number one. It isn't the sex he is bored with.
Tip number two. Get a man that loves you for you, not for the freaky sex you can do.
Tip number three. Have some respect for yourslf. If he doesnt love you for you nothing will keep him true. Sex will keep any dog around but you want a real man not a booty call. You should never have to be " creative" I have never ever be " creative" in my 20+ years of relationshop and marriage to my husband and we are perfectly happy with each other.
2007-05-17 10:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, there are tons of ideas to be given, but you should think about what he has responded to in the past. Does he get more into it when you moan, or in a certain position, or things like that? If you have done it a few times, there should be something that you could go further with. Exaggerate his fantasy.
Start with a long b.j. - that would get any guy in the mood.
2007-05-17 10:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jesserica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Food is good also you being in charge is fun I mean make him your slave for a night. Then if you like you be his one night. I think a woman being in control in the bedroom is kinda sexy. Use toys or rather let him use them on you and tease you with them. It doesn't have to be something way out there to make it a little more fun. =)
2016-05-21 23:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your lover a night he won't forget by giving him a buble bath. You wash him from head to toe. Then lay him in the bed. Feed him HIS favorite snacks. Then give him an evening where he does have to do any work...you make love to him while he lays there trying to hold his composure.
2007-05-17 10:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring out the food, try some costumes (depending on his fantasy, school girl, nurse...), greet him at the door after work and start taking his pants off, start playing with him while he's driving (only if he's a good driver and wouldn't crash the car), take a walk at night and randomly start fooling around when he doesn't expect it....
2007-05-17 10:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by :-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some props, or a sexy outfit. And go Buck wild...get into the role play.
2007-05-17 10:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by db14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll all i can say is watch some porn with him and then say lets try that out as long as its not something crazy but that usually works there is alot of creative stuff on there
2007-05-17 10:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by eunique97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no worries theres still hope! have you tried asking him what he wants? try watching porn together and ask him if there is anything he sees that he wants to try with you. maybe he wants to role play. you never know!! the key is communication. then comes trial and error. good luck!!
2007-05-17 10:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by gilma m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some handcuffs, maybe a gag...tell him you're his for the night and let him do what he wants to you...lots of fun ;)
2007-05-17 14:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by jen l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋