My friend says she is "going out" with a guy online. I asked her if he was her boyfriend and if she was single or taken. She told me that she is single and that she does not count him as a boyfriend. They have never met each other and he lives in a diff. state. They don't talk on the phone with each other either. Do you think he is a boyfriend or just a friend? We are 14.
2007-05-17 10:10:53 · 24 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
id say just a friend.
2007-05-17 10:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 14.
that should be your first clue. What is a boyfriend at 14? You dont have a car, you dont have a job. you just have your parents giving you rides and giving you money. So no, he's not a boyfriend. you dont even know what a boyfriend is until you get out of high school.
but your friend needs to be careful. there are al ot of sick sick sick people out there who are just waiting for some cute 14 year old girl to give out too much information online.
2007-05-17 10:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by emilymcquagge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this idiot friend who had an online girl friend she sent him tickets to ohio from Texas they romped for two weeks got married in two months after, then he asked her about her past he found out she was married once before and she has three young kids that are little monsters he had a beutiful 5,0 mustang and was going to college for automotive technology and now lost it all we are not even friends any more and last I heard they were fighting all the time he wanted to leave her already so thats a good laugh for me if he couldn't your friend can't either....
2007-05-17 10:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lion devour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're just penpals. Don't take the "going out" part too seriously. there are a lot of chat sites with avatars that you can "marry" and all sorts of things... but you can NOT be in an actual relationship like boyfriend/girlfriend if you have never met. At the most you can be interested correspondances.
2007-05-17 10:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by MCsnizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately just a friend. When you are in a serious relationship (which at doubt you would be in one at this age anytway) you would want more quality, a phone call, a visit, a card, etc. They are just friends.
However, there are serious relationships online. My bestfriend met her husband online. He used to live in a different state, then one day whe went to visit her, then he moved to the same city, same neighborhood and then they got married.
2007-05-17 10:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not gonna be like everyone else and say 14?? thats 2 young 2 have a bf..u can be any age and be in love..but honestly ur friend shouldnt be havin an online bf she doesnt no who he is..he couldnt be a child molestor..she needs 2 get rid of him or if she does wanna talk 2 him not give him ne personal info..u need 2 watch out 4 ur friend and make sure this doesnt turn out bad..
2007-05-17 10:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, she can't consider him a boyfriend if they have never met face to face or even talked on the phone. She isn't even going out with him, it is juts an online "fling".
2007-05-17 10:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by bski0409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a boyfriend. You could live in New York and have a boyfriend in China. All I can say is since it's online and they don't know each other much, BE CAREFUL!
2007-05-17 10:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend is someone you see and date or spend time with...a person online, whom you have never met, is not your boyfriend or girlfriend (although that potential may be there).
2007-05-17 10:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing if she hasn't seen him or even heard his voice he doesn't exist or at least the person he claims to be doesn't. Furthermore You guys are 14 years old trying to date people over the Internet only makes you vulnerable to sick, FAT, old predators.
2007-05-17 10:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by raulangelrodriguez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds like a serect b-friend and know today it is very dangerous for on-line relation ships becuz u don't know if it is a older guy and they can search where u are typing and find u
BE CAREFUL
2007-05-17 10:17:14 · answer #11 · answered by AZ girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋