ok..well there's this guy that..would always tease me.i thought he never liked me at all...so i figured what ever if he wants to bother you it's his problem....anyways..he started to be less irritating..and become more like a friend...we were in the same music class and he showed me how he could play his instrument..so we were gettong along good...i got his email because i wanted to talk to him online...we talked about anything and were getting along..he told me that he had this secert that no one new and he told if i promised not to tell he would tell me...so i promised and he told me.....the secert was that he liked me....i was so shocked because i thought he hated me....he Really liked me....i didn't even know why...so..that was the first part of the secert..there was another part that he told and that part was even more shocking..it was that he wanted me to be his girlfriend....when i read that i was so shocked and i felt kind of bad...because i never liked him that way..(more)
2007-05-17 10:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he was such a nice guy so i didn't want to disappoint him.so yea he asked me and i told him that i would think about it.my answer was no.and when i told him that he told me that he was heart broken...so then i felt really bad...the reason that i didn't want to go out with him was because there was an age difference..and i was older then him..by one grade...now that i think about it it is a stupid reason..but i can't change the past....he told me that he was heart broken and i told himt that i would re think it ...but my answer is still that same....he got offline before i could tell him.i think that i led him on thinking that i was going to change my mind in his favour.but today at school he never said one word to me.and every time we made eye contact he would just look away..i feel really bad...he even asked me to dance with him at the dance but i rejected it and i fell really bad.but he hasn't said a word to me.and online i've been trying to get his attetion but he hasn't answerd
2007-05-17 10:10:37 · update #1
So you don't like him. It's a tough world. He'll get over it
2007-05-17 10:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it's hard for a guy to just come right out and tell you that he likes you. Especially if he doesn't have alot of experience with girls. They can eve be a pest if they are really inexperienced. You responding and talking to him probably just kinda gave him the impression that you were feeling him to. Be gentle. Don't hurt him just because you know you can. Let him down easily, but be honest with him.
2007-05-17 17:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone. Give him time to get over his hurt. Don't try to be nice out of pity. That's even worse than the original (and repeated) rejection.
2007-05-18 07:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Snake Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wont talk to you because he has told you how he feels about you and you didnt respond i really dont know the whole story because your story got cut off just ask him why hehasnt said anything to you but if youre not feeloin him let him know up front
2007-05-17 17:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by eunique97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's cute
well if you love him u should go out with him and would feel safe with him and if you don't love him it maybe hard for u to tell him. If you dont go out with him you say we willbe friendz and help him find a g-friend! it worked with me so good luck
2007-05-17 17:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by AZ girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel bad. u cant change the way u feel and it would be WORSE if u were lying and went out that would REALLY lead him on. just forget it.
2007-05-17 17:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Cassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't like him and you'd rather stay friends... because if you decide to brak up with him later, it will be really akward....
2007-05-17 17:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by abigbird88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he will be able to carry on with his life.
2007-05-17 17:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, well if you don't like someone, you don't like em. Truth
2007-05-17 17:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the question is do u like him or not? if u do b his girlfiend and c how it goes!
2007-05-17 17:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋