well, my bf and i got back together 2day..(if u want 2 hear the whole story, go to my profile and find a quesion i asked called "what is he trying to do??") well, i'm scared he won't change.....but i want to be with him....what do u think?
2007-05-17 10:03:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we even got a new song!! but he said he was being immature b4 and he's SURE he wants me back
2007-05-17 10:22:40 · update #1
he told me he loves me again...
2007-05-19 10:15:52 · update #2
Don't plan on him changing. If you don't like him how he is now then it is time to move on. It is a common misconception that you can get with someone and you can change them into the person you wanted to be with. This does not work. If he has qualities that you just can't live with then get out and find someone with those qualities.
2007-05-25 06:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by bhopefull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety from what I'm hearing you're in a jam. first off I'm noting saying that he will change nor that he won't all I'm saying is that you should keep your eyes open. secondly, your friends and others can get in your relationship as well. i wouldn't say don't listen to your friends or other but at the same time don't let what they say make you so quick to jump to conclusions when you have yet to see for your self. love is all about risk taking and there must be something there between the two of you that drew you two back to each other once again. so being a little insecure is OK because he put you there and it's his job to get you out of that state of mind. if your heart tell you that to be with him then follow your heart sweety. take that leap of faith and pray that it works out best wishes to you.
2007-05-17 17:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by blazz872000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's understandable that you love him, and want him to change. However, like many others said - he won't change. I was in your shoes once... and believe me they do not change. Look at it black and white... the positive and the negative he has done. If more negative.. it's better to get hurt now and move on than later.
2007-05-17 17:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A leopard never changes it's spots. Trust me.
I just read the other question, this guy sounds like a snake, he won't change.
2007-05-17 17:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people deserve a 2nd chance, but you don't go back to someone who says will change, you go back to someone that HAS already changed and backs it up with action.
2007-05-17 17:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like bullshit. why subject yourself into being with someone who won't change. you shouldn't settle for anyone who treats you horribly or is immature. you should leave him and find someone else. believe me, there are greener pastures out there. don't be afraid to find them.
2007-05-25 16:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody ever changes unless they want to do it for themselves. I'm not saying it is impossible just unlikely
2007-05-17 17:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he won't change and you're gonna get hurt.
2007-05-17 17:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People seldom change.
2007-05-17 17:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOmetimes, change is a good thing and sometimes not...
2007-05-25 17:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? (W²) - No. II 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋