he's texting, and calling me everyday, I like this, but what's his point, I mean he's still with that female and the baby, but it sounds like he misses me, he just won't say it, plus I htink he's afraid of leaving the girl and not being able to see his daughter, what do you think is really going on and would it be alright for me to sleep with him again? because I will without one thought, karma goes around!!!
2007-05-17 10:01:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the spiteful woman in me says do it because that b**** did it to you with out regard for you or karma
2007-05-17 10:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by AJSMOM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, don't let him make you stoop that low, to use you to cheat on his girlfriend. He has a case of "have his cake and eat it too" syndrome. Are you forgetting that he cheated on you with her? I'm a big believer in Karma too but sleeping with him isn't going to give you good Karma. There is a baby involved now that didn't ask to be in that situation, so think of her too. Just from you saying he doesn't want to risk losing his daughter, you know he isn't planning on leaving her for you. He will only hurt you. Have self respect for you and forget about him. He forgot about you when he started sleeping with the other woman.
2007-05-17 17:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by bski0409 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
will it do any good to you if you sleep with him?i dont think so...it will just wont let you to get over it,because if you sleep with him once there will definately be a second time....he cheated you with that girl!dont you have pride?why do you accept this behaviour?never forget,he cheated on you!he doesnt deserve you ...and if he s sry now,well,he s just too late,he has a child now. And on the other hand,why would you ever accept to be just :the other women" in his life whereas as u see,he wont leave the other girl. you should be "The wonen" in his life......i m sry but this is how things are. its not only that he cheated you,....things got a bit more serious since he had a child with the other woman....
2007-05-17 17:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by nch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay well away, once you sleep with him that will be it, straight back to square 1, and all the pain and hurt you had last time will coming running back.
He wants his cake an eat it, he knows you still have a soft spot for him which he can tap into. He wants his comfort zone and thats you, but only temporay or until he is bored.
Be strong honey, just be strong!
2007-05-17 18:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by lafi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be. It's not worth it. He already made his decision which aparently was mistake in his part but you shouldn't have to suffer for it. You should move on and find someone who is worth your time. To be honest I don't even see the point in you guys remaining friends because the feelings will only creep back which will make matters worst. I say you quit it while your at it and just move on and so should he.
2007-05-17 17:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that guy is a winner. Golly I'd pick him.
Really, a guy who is texting another woman behind his girl friend's back is a PRIZE worth fighting for. A guy who cheated on me with someone else and is trying to cheat on her with me...well let me tell you this is the man of the YEAR and women should be fighting over him.
2007-05-17 17:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Garrison G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but if you would cheat with him when he is with someone else then you deserve to be used. And thats what he will be doing using you. Dont you remember how bad it felt to have him cheat on you, you shouldnt do this to the innocent baby. Tell him to stop texting.
2007-05-17 17:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? He already cheated on you and is willing to cheat on his new gf. Why would you want to go back to that? If you like drama, rent a good movie. But stay away from this guy.
2007-05-17 17:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by emmajane06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the heck away from this guy! He's no good for you. Think about it: do you really want a guy who's willing to cheat on the mother of his child?
2007-05-17 17:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away!!! He will have sex with you and then stay with that girl and his baby! If he really wants to be with you, misses you, yada yada yada, then he will break up with her and then pursue you. You would just be keeping the bad karma going around and around if you do....
2007-05-17 17:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOO r u crazy do not sleep with him gurlie..he gotta gurl and a child! dont mess that up..i understand he cheated on u..but damn u can go find ur self another man right? doing that wud just make u seem like a h0e..
2007-05-17 17:04:50 · answer #11 · answered by Lil Bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋