i left my bra there and i heard that they got into a huge fight from my co workers..
he hasn't spoke to me since.. am i in trouble now? what should i do? should i tell his wife the truth?
she is a county judge btw
2007-05-17 09:55:28 · 33 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep you should tell her
2007-05-17 09:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You made a mistake, now don't make it worse.
Keep your mouth shut and stay away from him. It's his business to tell his wife or not. Don't do it, it'll only make it worse for you. What you need to do is worry about covering your own butt. All your coworkers know too, that won't help office relations. Do your job, and do it well, but don't continue humping the boss.
2007-05-17 10:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by sadie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i think enough damage is done. Just lay low and if he doesn't want to speak to you let it go. If she approaches you then talk to her other than that STAY OUT OF IT!!!!!!!!!!!
Edit:
You know what i don't feel sorry for you and your getting what you deserve. I saw you comment on ( Marry a black or a white? why?) Marry white for money and then cheat on him with a black guy for pleasure?!!??! Isn't that what got you in the mess that your in now.
Change your morals and if you chose the keep that kid he/she might have a chance of growing up somewhat normal.
2007-05-17 09:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by abstract_alao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you left your bra there deliberatley...then you got the result you were hoping for...discord and harmony.
Do yourself a favour, and tell the poor woman so that she can kick her loser husband to the kerb and start over. I suspect that you can't wait to tell the wife, hoping that the husband will come running to you for comfort, right?
Damn, the cheap tactics never change...
2007-05-18 00:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Snake Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in trouble. If his wife knows its you, she may come after you if she's pist enough. You should just lay low, don't do anything or say anything. Don't sleep with another married man, you're gonna have BAD relationship karma! One day you'll fall in love and get married and then YOUR husband will cheat on you with some homewrecking hooch.
2007-05-17 09:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that when you know he's married? Don't you think it's a bit wrong? I really can't express how I feel about people like you. There is a word that comes to mind but what's the point of saying it when you know should already know what it is.
2007-05-17 09:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boy, did you make a mistake...a married man...what a waste of your time, energy and body...are you in trouble ? what do you mean by trouble and how can you leave you bra some place by mistake ??? ...since his wife is a judge she and he know they can not fire you now...that would open the gates to a hefty sexual harrassment suit..and .what do you have to gain by telling her ? he won't leave her for you..lets face the facts...if i was you, frankly, i would leave my job, make sure i have a good reference in writing from him and never do this again...you don't poop , where you eat.
2007-05-17 10:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by misfit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd just back off of the entire situation. Don't try to talk to him...just let it go. If you don't push the situation, you may get to keep your job.
What happened was a mistake, but don't make it worse by telling his wife or trying to keep in touch with him.
2007-05-17 09:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dumb are you? Why would you sleep with your boss and why would you have a relationship with someone married? Doesn't say alot for your character. If I were you I would never see him again and start looking for a job, because you are on your way out!!!!
2007-05-17 10:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by jlynncogbill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is totally disrespectful. If you tell the wife, I can guarantee she will destroy your life. Actualy you did already. You cant fix what you've done but you need to come clean with him and DONT do it again. If you do it will catch up to you even worse.
2007-05-17 10:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking for another job. It is not your place to tell the wife anything, it's his. You need to disappear from his life before you get fired.
2007-05-17 10:00:06 · answer #11 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋