Alright my gf broke up with me a little while ago when she was done saying why and all that junk she added we had a great sex life and wants to continue sleeping together. What do you say to a women you've been with for 3 years when she breaks your heart and adds she still wants to sleep with you. also she gets all mad when i don't act like a bf to her anymore but we aren't togther so whats she thinking?
2007-05-17 09:50:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really cared about this girl, how could you even be remotely interested in this deal she's presenting to you?
How is it fair that she gets to break up with you, and not have to commit, but keeps you around just because she says you guys' had a great sex-life and that she wants to keep you around for just that? I say cut off all contact with her and find a woman that loves all of you.
2007-05-17 09:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Valerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she isn't sure what she wants. Did she have a good reason to break up with u? I owuld tell her either we r together and we have sex or we aren't and there is none. Think about it, if she finds another guy is she still going to want to come to u for sex?Plus when she finds another guy she may just drop u all together. To me she is using u if she just comes to u for sex and not the whole relationship. I knwo she broke ur heart after 3 yrs and i know how that feels, but seriously no matter how hard it is, if she wants u 4 only that aspect then just find someone else. That wants u 4 the whole package and acknowledges that u have a relationship.
2007-05-17 16:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want you to have HER heart any more, but she wants to keep you from moving on.
She may be a sex addict, and loves the sex and doesn't care the source.
If she has broken your heart, stay away from her, unless you want it broken over and over. You want to be with someone who dumped you for x,y, z reasons, and you are just a booty call now? You can do better than that. Can't you?
It will take a very long time to get over her,so get started today. No more contact.Period.
Good luck.
2007-05-17 16:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants her cake and eat it to. she doesnt want to be committed to you she wants to have other friends but she know that shes not gonna sleep with them so if she has you around to fulfill her need sshe is okay. dont let her do that to you tell her you 2 can be friends socially but nothing more it will noy help you move on if you guys are still sexually active. but if you cant handle even being social friends, if it hurts too bad just break it off altogether i hope you fell better have some you time and have a wonderful day sorry to hear about the break up
2007-05-17 16:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by eunique97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, sounds like the average guys dream relationship. If you want more out of the relationship, then you need to break it off, because she doesn't want the same thing, and you'd end up just driving yourself crazy. If you're cool with the arrangement of just having sex, but not truly committed, then take full advantage man, and enjoy yourself. Just use good judgement.
2007-05-17 16:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by hirofuri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what shes thinking. I was just in a simular situation and I told her to piss off and stop using me. I know it sounds funny that a girl uses guys for sex but it really does happen. Either just enjoy the complex ride or move on and find someone that wants a relationship and sex. Good luck pal
2007-05-17 16:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Just keep breathin' 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Strings Attached Sex!!! Any mans dream.
Dude, go for it, get it while it last and by all means don't messed this up!
Let her lead the way, go with the flow and if anybody asks... yes, she's my friend with benefits. Something wrong with that?
She will make a choice sooner than later, I am sure.
2007-05-17 16:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by The truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If the sex was good she of course does not want to stop having it. She will probably keep having sex with you until she finds another guy she likes and likes having sex with. At that point she will tell you she does not want to have sex anymore.
2007-05-17 16:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mary J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in where you fit in-- You might have been together for a long time but maybe she needs a break from the relationship--perhaps stiking around and giving her what she wants will make her come back to you...good luck
2007-05-17 16:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a she's using you for sex until something or someone better, in her mind, comes along but until then, you are guaranteed sex and an ego boost...don't give in., she doesn't love you, if she did, she wouldn't have broken up with you. if you keep having sex with her you re only hurting yourself emotionally because you are keeping a tiny seed of hope alive in you that she will come back to you at some point..let her go and let her see and realize what she is missing and what she gave up...her loss....don't continue to allow yourself to be strung along and used...don't give her that power over you.
2007-05-17 16:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by misfit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋