I just feel like I am doing something wrong and do not realize it. If I am out somewhere what are some signs that that a guy might be interested so I can approach him. I would rather them approach me but sometimes you just have to do it on your own.
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2007-05-17 09:48:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I am not looking for complements. Usually people want to know what you look like so I am just posting ahead of time.
2007-05-17 09:53:01 · update #1
LOL, do you post this once a week looking for compliments?
Ok, I see! I honestly don't know how you don't have more luck. You would be the type I would talk to if I saw you out. You aren't scowling constantly are you?
2007-05-17 09:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Bigglesworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime more attractive ladies end up being approached less because the guys are somewhat intimidated. Also some men just figure they must be already taken.
To over come this sometimes you have to be the more aggressive one in meeting people.
But for the most part laughing and smiling will make you look less intimidating to some men. Also say if you are in a restaurant or club or something like that. Get up and go to the restroom or somewhere where you have to walk by someone that catches your eye. You don't have to stop and talk to them. Just smile and say hi as you walk past. That will be enough to give him an opening to either start up a conversation or maybe approach you later.
Oh and one more thing. Sometimes women wear rings that don't mean anything just be cause they look nice. My suggestion is to not wear any rings on your left hand no matter which finger it is on. Sometimes all a man gets is a glance and not a good look and if they see any ring at all on that hand then they assume you are married.
Well I hope this helps.
2007-05-17 10:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think probably most guys will assume you have a fairly serious steady b/f and will just leave you alone. Lots of guys are shy too and just won't take the chance of being hurt or put down. The feminist movement has done a great harm to the gentle art of flirting as people are so touchy sometimes so the guy who really likes you is probably either turning red or looking at his shoes.
2007-05-17 11:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it certainly isn't because you are not attractive. My guy friends say they never approach a pretty girl when she is with her girlfriends. Too embarrassing. Also, do you always wear that pretty smile? If so, I don't think you would have much trouble attracting guys. Sometimes you just have to really put yourself out there. One night I was at a club and kept trying to get this really cute guy's eye. No luck. So, finally I just sat down beside him at the bar and said , "Hi. I don't think I've seen you here before." He smiled and pointed to his wedding band. I just excused myself but really wasn't embarrassed. Just sad he was taken. About thirty minutes later this other cute guy walks up to me and says, " You just hit on my married brother. How about trying that "Hi" line on me?"
We went out for several months until he was transferred to another city with his job..
2007-05-17 10:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are soo pretty ,come on you know you are and i think that's the problem.guys get nervous or won't approach you when you seem too confident.try this ;if you are interested in a guy and you get the vibe that he might be interested too then look him straight In the eye and smile.maybe you come on off as cold.
P.S i know from my own experience that when men see an girl that seems confident it makes them hesitant and you might not realize it but maybe you are giving off that vibe.
2007-05-17 10:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look just like your avatar. Well usually eye contact is the key. you can tell alot by the way a person looks at you and if they get nervous around you then that's also a sign.
2007-05-17 09:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by abstract_alao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile and make eye contact. it works for me, i used to never get approached now guys give me there number lol
looking happy is a great signal to send out x
2007-05-17 10:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile more! At them and in general.
Otherwise, if that's not working out, if you really like someone, clearly you have the confidence to approach them, so do it!
2007-05-17 09:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by :Sheila: 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont act available...it NEVER WORKS....trust me
2007-05-17 09:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them come to you....then you'll have more control...lol.
2007-05-17 09:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ohsoconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋