theres this guy that likes me and even tells me im ''his cutie'' but whenever im around him i compleatly freeze! i never know what to say! i get frustruated and nervous so i act like a weirdo and get grumpy around him and he's getting anoyed and tired of that. how can i open up to him? and stop being so nervous?
[[p.s my spell check doesn't wanna work]]
2007-05-17 09:19:09 · 22 answers · asked by ~[[ ummm yea]]~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he makes me melt....and makes me wanna lala.
2007-05-17 09:20:24 · update #1
does growing balls help?
2007-05-17 09:37:41 · update #2
aww...don't cha just hate it when a guy makes you act like a complete idiot whenever he's around?!! The only way to get over that is to spend more time with him. When you are talking to him just be honest, tell him he makes you nervous and you don't know what to say. Believe me, he will love that and be patient with you. Don't get grumpy though...just enjoy being with him, even if you feel all wiggly inside!! My boyfriend used to make me feel that way too and I used to think everything I said sounded ridiculous!! Eventually that feeling passed and I was just able to enjoy being around him. Good luck!!
2007-05-17 09:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tallulah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bit about the clock doesn't work as schools have sirens or bells which are rung from the front office and colleges have other classes in the same room so you have people crowding around outside and starting to come in 10 minutes before the next class starts.
2016-04-01 06:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a wonderful feeling isn't it. Maybe you should try and think of ways to talk to him before it happens so that you are ready when it does.
Maybe that's how you break the ice by telling him he makes you nervous. It never hurts to be honest, communication is the best and to start out that way is even better....
I hope it works out for you:)Good Luck!!
2007-05-17 09:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by blu_id_irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you want to lala..... Try calling him up and talking dirty to him. Sometimes it's easier to do over the phone when you don't have to look him right in the eye when you tell him to touch you right there....Just remember, it's more fun if he's in the room with you.
2007-05-17 09:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard but if the guy feels the same way go up to him and give him a hug and tell him how you feel. Trust me he is as nervous and scared of rejection as you. Make love overcome your fears.
2007-05-17 09:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just loosen up! Take a couple deep breaths and shake whatever fear u have off. Then I think you should just go up and tell him that YOUR interested. Guys like girls who ca take some initiative. See what happens from there...
2007-05-17 09:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say "hi" it is an amazing ice breaker the word "hi" is!!!!
After you say that, then you can talk about other things of interest, but you better grab him before someone else does!
2007-05-17 09:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling. it depends on how well you know this guy. if you feel comfortable around him you shouldn't feel nervous. take the time and sit down with him go out on a date let him see the real you. if he doesn't see the real you then how does he know you like him?
2007-05-17 09:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl STEP UP! flirt back! when he says hey cutie u say hi hotty! if he is across the table lean forward and look at him and say i love you!wear something sexy and hug him. kiss him infront of people. after you do this it will b so easy to opean up to him!
2007-05-17 09:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by xoxo <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be calm and first just say hi
think of him as your average friend
and if you get caught saying nothing keep a candy bar in your purse or something and open it and eat it so it doesnt seem like your ignoring him
2007-05-17 09:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by heyy!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋